My Own Little Bear Grylls

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I now have a confident climbing baby!

Yep Dexter has been perfecting his kneeling and standing for the last few weeks. He’s been grabbing at his pushchair basket, pulling himself onto his knees, then using the footrest to get upright. It’s quite the achievement, and if his screams are anything to go by, he knows it.

As the gymnastics shown above involves a 2-tier climb (basket, then foot rest), we thought we’d have a few more weeks before he would manage to pull himself up using the coffee table or sofa - we were wrong. Having turned my back for a second yesterday, I found my little monkey on his feet clinging onto the table for dear life. His feet had slipped and he was suspended at a 45 degree angle. After some magic mummy cuddles I tried to encourage him to do it again safely - but he was too tired and needed to sleep off the experience.

2 hours later he was up again and mounting a skirmish across the lounge. Whilst preparing his toast I had my back turned again. Sure enough, he scaled the table once more - this time with more success. Returning to the lounge I found he’d emptied a tissue box, toppled our fruit basket, and was eating his way through some printer paper. Time to rearrange the lounge then!

Just like Bear Grylls, Dexter is also an expert forager. Favourites include cotton wool buds from mummy’s make-up bag, coal from the fire, receipts from my purse and the camera lens cap. A fireguard is no match for my son - he’s learnt pull it down to get to the black stuff. There’s nothing more horrific than finding your child with a mouth full of coal and black dribbles down his chin.

His adventures aren’t confined to home either. On Monday I took Dexter to his first ever mother and baby group. Held in church hall, there were clearly delineated zones for the children (aged 2 weeks to 3 years) to explore. Thinking we’d start with soft play, I plopped Dexter on a play mat and tried to introduce him to the other babies. He wistfully looked at the older kids charging around on Trunki’s and V-Tech walkers, then at looked at me as if asking permission.

He must have covered every inch of that hall floor - he was filthy when it was time to go home! Whether it was banging the plastic door of the mini kitchenette, chasing after the older kids, or batting around a plastic ball that had escaped the confines of the toddler zone - Dexter was in constant danger of being stepped on by the walking contingent of the class. Yet he never cried. Despite a toy pushchair being driven over his foot, a two-year old casually using his back as a stepping stone, and an older child wrenching a plastic ball from his grip - he was smiley as ever.

During lunch, he sat on a big boy chair and managed a few chunks of banana and some juice from a sippy cup with the older children. He wasn’t even fussed when an older child nicked his breadstick which was just millimetres from his mouth. At sing along time he was transfixed by the play leader. He clapped along at the right bits and looked made a new friend - a 8.5 month old named Lyla.

It’s definitely been a week of adventures for Dexter. He’s such a happy baby it’s so lovely seeing him interacting so beautifully with other children. I couldn’t be prouder of my little man.

 

 


Review: Development Toys – The Lamaze Gardenbug Wrist Rattles and Foot Finders

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This purchase was never in doubt. I first came across them in Debenhams and dragged my OH over from the cooking department to gush over them.

Me: “What a cool idea. He’s using his feet loads but doesn’t seem bothered by his hands at all. This might make him more aware of them”

OH: “But will he use them Gem?”

I hate this line from my OH! It’s true, Dex only takes to 50% of the toys I buy him, but if you don’t try things, you’ll never know! I’d rather he try them out and turn his nose up, than miss out on something that could really contribute to his development. I do have a couple of worries about Dexter; he seems to really favour holding his head to one side and his arm on this side is far more active than the other, he doesn’t often unfurl his hands, he only tries to stand when he’s on me… I’m always looking for little solutions to my concerns.

I was right to trust my instincts on these rattles as they’ve been an utter godsend. Dexter LOVES them - just look:

Look mummy!

The colours are fabulous and totally grab his attention. When I get them out to show him (and ask if he wants to wear them) a little shake produces a huge smile. Lamaze also do these in plainer colours but I prefer these as I think they look more fun. The bugs are big enough to entertain him, but not big enough to smash him in the face every time he gets a little overzealous. The noise is also gentle and won’t irritate mummies wanting a 5 minute respite. They’re also machine washable so you don’t have to worry about ruining the sound by saturating them.

You attach them to baby using velcro which is great as they’re easy to get off without waking baby if he falls asleep. I also don’t have to worry about them catching on all his other apparatus as they’ll just fall off - I must admit he has quite the collection to play with!

My only criticism (and I’m ALWAYS fair) is that they’re very tiny. They fit around his wrists now (at 11 weeks) and he was a teeny baby at 5lbs 14. I suspect they’ll continue to wrap around him for another 5 weeks, but after that he’ll be too big. The socks also slip off easily due to the face they have no built-in heel. I can completely appreciate why this is the case - different babies have different sized feet - but the weight of the bugs will see them flying off if your baby is prone to thrash a bit.

The cute little foot rattles

Back to why I love them… he’s started lifting his legs to find his feet. If Dexter is due a poo (his pattern is highly erratic) this helps him gently move his bowel without him realising. I wouldn’t want to champion them as a solution to colic (and I’m sure Lamaze wouldn’t want me to either) but from my experience they have totally helped.

Also, if I’m concerned he’s favouring one side of his body, I can attach the toys to the other side and gently encourage him to play. The fly on one of the rattles also have crinkle paper on its wings so I always pop this on his underused side as he likes to bring this bit to his mouth. In my picture, Dexter is laying down but he also uses these when sat upright or in his bouncer as he’s not impressed by hanging toys. This allows me to leave him for those all important 5 minutes to grab a shower, eat my breakfast, pour a glass of wine etc.

My verdict? At £12.49 from the Lamaze website (and other stockists including Debenhams), they are worth every penny - 5/5

You can buy direct from the Lamaze website, or at Debenhams.

 


Development Toys - The ELC Bugs Mirror

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Even at a tiny 8 weeks - mummy is super impressed with how quickly you are exploring the world around you. Let’s face it - you don’t do too much right now (other than pooping, sleeping, drinking - and crying!) but when we do get a moment to play, mummy tries to make it as educational and fun as possible.

Already you are largely supporting your own head when mummy carries you around, pulling her hair, smiling lots and lots, and chattering away to your toys. We’re still waiting for you to giggle, lift up your head when you have ‘tummy time’ with your toys, and have some ‘sit up’ play-time. So mummy has done some research on the best toys out there and will be reviewing them when you’ve had a chance to road test them.

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Bugs Mirror - Mothercare / ELC

Daddy bought this ELC Mirror for you at the weekend. The mirror suggestion was made by a play specialist at the Royal Berks Hospital. When you were poorly, mummy tried to stay by your side for every waking moment as you were very frightened. Unfortunately mummy still had to eat and stretch her legs occasionally though! One day mummy was in the cafe getting some lunch and you had a major strop. You woke up in your hospital cot and screamed the ward down. When mummy got back she found you staring at yourself in a mirror encased in foam. It seems the play specialist had popped by and left this in your cot to keep you quiet. It worked! Mummy and daddy were so impressed we shopped around and found you this one.

MUMMY’S VERDICT - 4/5

This vibrant mirror from the Early Learning Centre was a bargain at £15. As baby mirrors are not made from real glass (for safety reasons), many of them are encased in soft toys and become warped as they are sewed into the toy. As this mirror is in a flat canvas, the reflection is much clearer and longer allowing Dexter to see his whole body when lying on his side. The mirror can be used in three ways; it can be free-standing (as pictured), hung up on the wall (the mirror has a handy fabric loop on its narrowest side for this purpose), or indeed wrapped into a cylindrical toy using velcro for when baby is a little more confident.

It’s a winner here at Chez Mills as it’s easily transportable and colourful. I can lie beside Dexter and he can see the two of us in the reflection so he feels safe whilst he studies himself. I love watching the look of consternation on his face as he punches the mirror to play with his twin! The ‘mirror experience’ allows babies to focus, track images, and explore the wonderful things a face can do. It also promotes social and emotional development as they can interact with you.

My only criticism is that, when it’s in free-standing mode, Dexter has to be up very close to the mirror in order to see himself. This to due to the angle created when propped up against the rear panel.

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