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I quite like these tag thingies. You get to read all about the people behind the blogs you’ve been stalking for the last few years, and it’s often the best chance you’ll get to see a picture of mum too! So it’s thanks to my buddy Helen from Mummy to the Max (and I can’t not pimp her newest blog too - Saving to the Max), that I’m having a go at this one today.

Without further ado…

1. Are you a Stay at Home Mum, or a Working Mum?

Every mum is a working mum - it’s the hardest job in the world being strapped to a teething, demanding, and paddy-prone toddler all day. Every day has the potential to land you both in A&E, and every day I have to take plenty of 5 minute time-outs to massage my temples free of a brewing migraine, or whack an ice pack on my head as Dexter has klouted it with a toy. But no, I don’t currently don a suit every day and transform into Lois Lane. My office is the living room, my uniform is whatever I can find in the wardrobe that isn’t covered in Sudocrem paw-prints, and my only client is this little guy (my adorable 21 month-old, Dexter).

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2. Would you have it any other way?

Yes and no. I love being at home with Dexter, and am soon to have my hands even fuller (if this is at all possible) when Mini Madam arrives. I like to think I’m pretty hands on. Although I’m not the Pritt Stick-wielding crafty type, we do fit in plenty of cuddles and learning experiences throughout day. In fact, I’m pretty much his teacher, his medic, his personal stylist, his caterer… there’s not a lot of time to cram in much else. I’m also not glued to the laptop as many might think (Dexter kicks off if I even dare to check my emails during Justin’s House).

Having said all this, I really do miss work and having the freedom to earn my own money. Dropping a wage is not an easy decision but one that (thankfully) we were able to make together.

3. Do you co-sleep?

Good God no. Craig and I have a super king size bed for just the two of us, and still manage to fight over covers and whack each other a few times every night. No way is our bed a safe place for Dexter! I’m also not sure I could cope with his constant finger-sucking and the smell of morning poo…

4. What is your one must-have item for your baby?

Hmm. Can I say ‘my Craig’? Okay, okay, given he’s not strictly an ‘item’, I’ll plump for a bouncer as it gives you plenty of hands-free time. I’m also really excited to be trialling a NCT Bed Nest over the next few months with Mini Madam.

5. How many kids do you plan on having?

This’ll make you laugh but I’d be happy as the UK’s answer to the matriarch of the Brady Bunch. I think I’d have to kiss my Craig goodbye though as I don’t think he could cope with me being pregnant again anytime soon. I have unprecedented mood-swings and absolutely hate the entire 9 months I have to share my body with a mini human. I certainly wouldn’t rule out adoption or fostering in the future though.

6. Date night? How many nights per month?

Not enough. This is purely because I’m pregnant though and we’re both too exhausted to come up with date night ideas that don’t involve alcohol. We’re not short of willing baby-sitters (nor cash thankfully), I just don’t think you can beat a nice meal, a relaxing glass of wine, and a spot of dodgy mum-and-dad-dancing.

7. Your childs favourite show?

Much to my annoyance, it seems to be Mister Maker. He has a little bop during the theme tune and looks eagerly at me when Mister Maker makes something naff out of yoghurt pots, googley eyes and cotton wall. This show riles me like no other as it requires so many bits and bobs that you just don’t have in your home - instead you spend a fortune in HobbyCraft to make something that entertains your child for all of 30 seconds.

8. Name one thing you bought before you had your baby and never ended up using?

A few things - nappy bins, nappy stackers and room thermometers are pretty high up there. I’m sure these things have happy homes in other people’s houses, but they never made it of my cupboard.

9. Your child’s favourite food?

Dex would be happy on a diet of chips, lasagna and shepherds pie forever more. He’s pretty partial to Mini Cookies too. Oh dear, this makes him sound like a future candidate for Supersize vs Superskinny… He does eat plenty of fruit too - honest! (Here’s a previous post on tips for dealing with fussy eaters - See? No need to get on to Social Services).

10. How many cars does your family have?

Two. Craig has a work van, and we also have a clapped out family car. I don’t drive - in fact, I’ve crashed three cars, run over a dog, and a person’s foot throughout my 5+ years of lessons. It is one of my goals this year to get behind the wheel of an automatic - but don’t worry, expectation is understandably low from my family members.

11. Weight gain before pregnancy, during and after and now?

I’ve always been curvy. In-between pregnancies I sat uncomfortably between a 14-16, but my natural size is closer to a 12-14. I’m sure I’ll make a few half-arsed attempts to lose some weight when Mini Madam arrives - maybe jog up the stairs a few times, or watch a few Davina McCall DVDs from the safety of the sofa, but I wouldn’t want to go any smaller than a size 12 as I have big boobs so might end up like Dolly Parton.

12. Dream holiday with your kids?

I suspect lots of mums have answered Disney Land / World / or whatever other garish monstrosity these guys have built around the globe. Personally I’d rather place my head in a vice but I’m reliably informed it’s great for mini people so assume we’ll wind up there at some point.

Instead, I’d plump for Australia. We’re hoping to move out there in a few years time despite the fact I’ve never been! Craig has been, and I trust his instincts on this, but I’d love to see it before I commit. Would be pretty scary stepping off the plane for the first time without a home to go home to!

13. Dream holiday without your kids?

Lake Como on a wedding planning venture.

14. How has your life changed since your baby has been born?

I’ve become one of those irritating women who spam people on Facebook with images and statuses about her children.

15. Finish the sentence: ‘It makes my heart melt to see …

Craig and Dexter playing together. I love my boys with every fibre of my being and couldn’t have dreamed of a better daddy for Dex… plus this means I’m hands-free for a few more minutes.

16. Where do you shop for your kids?

Anywhere really. We love H&M and Zara but you’re just as likely to find me looking for bargains in Primark or on eBay. I don’t see the need to dress Dexter in designer clothes everyday - he always looks adorable and that’s all that matters at his age. We’ll save the pennies now so we can deck him out in A&F, Superdry, and whatever else is deemed as ‘cool’ when he’s in the throws of adolescence.

17. Favourite makeup and skincare products?

Clinque, Lancome, Estee Lauder, MAC… you don’t really care about this, do you?

18. Huggies or Pampers?

We swore by Pampers when Dex was weeney but have quickly worked out that ASDA’s Little Angels are equally up to the task and ten times cheaper. It’s trial and error with these things but when it comes down to it, they catch poo = no need to spend a fortune. I feel the need to clarify that this is the only thing I’ll brave ASDA for - it’s my idea of hell in there.

19. Have you always wanted kids?

Nope. It wasn’t until I met Craig (aged 29) that I even thought about it. I used to smirk a little when I went on Facebook and saw old school friends with 2 or 3 kids and married - like I somehow knew better. Seems they had it right from the beginning and the joke is on me.

20. Best part about being a mum?

The unknown. I love the unwavering love that Dexter has for me, every cuddle, and seeing him hit each milestone - but I know there’s so much more to come from my little man (and his sister). There’s a whole world for them to make their mark in, and I can’t wait to wipe away their tears and celebrate their successes with the man I’m lucky enough to wake up next to every morning.