SOURCE: SafeHealthyChildren.org
I was recently contacted by Benenden (personal health care experts) about a survey they’ve undertaken to coincide with this week’s World Breastfeeding Week. The aim was to unpack some of the concerns women have about breastfeeding in public, and to try and dig a little deeper as to other people’s views, both for and against. It certainly makes for interesting reading.
By surveying men and women from a range of age groups and ethnicities, the hope was to not just find out just how much of the population doesn’t agree with breastfeeding in public, but why this is and whether these opinions are impacting on a mother’s decision to breastfeed. While many people don’t see a problem with it, many others find it quite off-putting and even offensive – but why? Is it down to personal views or even a deeper reason, such as faith?
SOURCE: The Metro, 2011
The results!
Encouragingly, the survey reveals that 84% of those surveyed either breastfed, or supported their partner in doing so. The pro-breastfeeding message is clearly getting through as the majority of those answering affirmatively cite their reason for choosing breast milk is that it’s healthier than formula.
My views on this might be considered controversial, but bear with me.
Although it would be silly of me to argue with science (I know that breast milk is indeed more nutritious for baby), I have a real problem with the constant pressure from midwives, and have questioned their insistence on it fairly audibly on this blog. I felt very much as though the NHS strong-armed me into breastfeeding from the get-go with both of my children. Midwives never missed an opportunity to sell breastfeeding in antenatal classes, and I felt incredibly pressurised to whip out my boobs when recovering from my c-section with Dexter. This, despite the fact I was completely overwhelmed and sore from surgery.
Whilst I wholly support women who choose to breastfeed (I lasted 6 weeks with both of my children), I just wish healthcare professionals would be more supportive of those who choose not to do so. Indeed, there are some circumstances where breastfeeding is not possible, or even damaging to a woman’s mental health. I certainly felt there was a link between my own PND and breastfeeding.
Less than 10% of those who abandoned breastfeeding, or didn’t attempt it, cite emotive reasons such as feeling uncomfortable with it. Instead, the reasons given are largely practical such as pain or low milk supply. Sadly, lack of supply is actually a myth. Every woman has the capacity to breastfeed, and every woman who persists with it will have an adequate supply to sate baby. Similarly, pain is most likely a product of poor technique and could be nipped in the bud quickly by a lactation consultant. If you’re currently struggling and need a little support, I recommend the book Breastfeeding Made Easy by Carlos González which is great for debunking a variety of myths surrounding breastfeeding.
As regards the contentious issue of breastfeeding in public, the news is a little disheartening. I breastfed in public with Dexter just once, in a Macdonald’s carpark. I left the restaurant as I felt that I was putting people off their food, and forcing mums to confront a barrage of uncomfortable questions from their curious children. Needless to say my breastfeeding days with Dexter were numbered after this. It seems I’m not alone either.
I certainly have some sympathy with the 27% who cite that they abandoned breastfeeding as they’ve had difficulties getting themselves and baby into a comfy position. I struggled enormously with this due to my 34HH boobs. More worrying, however is the perceived negativity and hostility from onlookers. The press have certainly done a job on us all and are incredibly quick to print stories of nursing mums being kicked out of public spaces.
But it seems some of this paranoia is unfounded. Despite the fact that almost half of those surveyed had not attempted to breastfeed in public, perhaps more importantly only 20% of those that do embrace out-and-about feeds have experienced negativity from others. 20% is still too high in my opinion, but it’s certainly better than I expected.
Perhaps the most interesting response of all however is the feedback from those brave enough to voice their personal reasons for not appreciating breastfeeding in public (12% of people surveyed). Thankfully faith was cited by only a negligible number of people, and most went onto say they would be more supportive if a woman wore a cover-up.
Far from being upset by this, I find it refreshing. I actually share a few of these concerns myself as I felt so concerned about other people’s feelings when I was breastfeeding my children. Even at home I would retreat to the bedroom if we had guests.
Was I too prudish? Unnecessarily concerned? I don’t know. But I do try to the respect the choices of everyone, and mine was to breastfeed alone, at home.
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I breastfed my first baby for a few week but gave up as it wasn’t for me. My other children were all born prematurely and spend their first weeks/months in the SCBU so I expressed milk and they were fed it through a tube. I am please I gave it a go with all of mine, even though I didn’t carry on for too long.
I agree that it is ok to breast feed in public as long as it is not too obvious, particulary if sitting in a restaurant. You can get some great ops or shawls that can give you privacy.
i didn’t breastfeed but i’m not against others doing it but i do think if you are in a cafe or restaurant a shawl or summat to cover yourself is a good idea
I think breastfeeding is a good thing to do. I don’t have a problem with it in public but I know people who’ve had bad experiences with it. Don’t agree with that but some people are funny about it I suppose.
I don’t see a problem with it, i find severe PDA’s annoying!!!
I think every mother should do what they feel is best for her & her baby no matter where they are
I see nothing wrong with it at all it is one of the natural things in life
I don’t see a problem with breastfeeding in public.
Its shocking that women are still asked to cover up or made to feel they are wrong for breastfeeding in public. It is the most natural way to feed your baby.
I don’t have children but have no problems with mothers breastfeeding in public.
I don’t see a problem with it
I am against it in public personally but everyone has different views on it I suppose
No problem at all!
I totally support breast feeding anywhere 100% I didn’t breastfeed but mothers who do shouldn’t be made to feel they are doing something wrong if they need to feed their baby in public
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I think anyone should be able to if they want to, it’s completely natural.
when my son was born,i tried for a few days to breast feed him,but he didnt wont to know,so i had to bottle feed him,but i still think its good to feed your baby by the breast,its a natural thing to do
I didn’t breastfeed but I do not have a problem with others ding it in public.
I haven’t breast fed in public, but I have nothing against it at all
I exclusively expressed for my first, so I was never going to pump in public! I did it in the car or John Lewis if I was desperate.
With my second, I was hugely self conscious. I know people say you can’t see anything, but you could with me. And I had a wiggly baby. So we used a cover, which was brilliant, but I see these now attract a lot of negative attention in the media.
You can’t win either way.
Have breastfed all 3 of mine exclusively for 6 months, I believe it is the best thing for my baby, even though I have found it painful at times and thought about giving up. I have no problem with people breastfeeding in public but I feel self conscious doing it so I take expressed milk out with me instead.x
I think it should be done discretely, but see no reason not to feed baby in public
I have no problem with it at all
The implication is that if you couldn’t then you would be forced to feed your baby in a stinky toilet but I feel this is not the case. I breastfed and I found if you asked staff anywhere would find somewhere clean and comfortable but a little more private. There should be more specific feeding areas then everyone is happy!
I breastfed my first son for 13 months (longer than I wanted as he was a bottle refuser!) and just winding down with my second now he is 10 months. I have fed them EVERYWHERE due to necessity - trains, planes, automobiles..! parks, shops, restaurants, and I have never received so much as a dirty look. People seem very unconcerned by it indeed, as well they should, so long as you’re relatively subtle about it. I’ve had numerous instances of people stopping to talk to me without even realising the baby was feeding. I enjoyed breastfeeding my babies but know I was lucky not to have any problems or difficulties with it. If I were to have another baby and for some reason it was more tricky, I would definitely formula feed without feeling too much guilt about it.
I didnt breast feed but im totally for it, i think its stupid people get offended by it to be honest its all natural and nobody should be ashamed by doing this its other people who have the problem and are narrow minded
Perfectly natural and shouldn’t be frowned upon
More breastfeeding the better, in public or not
I don’t have any problem wth breastfeeding in public and have never witnessed any negativity towards it at all.
I breastfed my baby for 8 weeks and would plan on doing it with any subsequent children - but if it is not working then there is no problem switching to formula
it natural, i would of with my kids but i just wasnt producing enough x
I don’t see a problem with it; actually saw a notice outside a café last week welcoming breastfeeding mothers to ‘put your feet up and relax’, thought it was very sweet (:
I only ever did it in Mothercare. That was more about me not wanting people looking to be honest.
I don’t have a problem with it at all
I’m not against it, although I didn’t breastfeed,I certainly wouldn’t be offended if I saw someone feeding their baby.
I think if you use a scarf or baggy jumper when out it’s fine and can be done without anyone even noticing.
Totally for breastfeeding in public…I bottlefeed Ted in public so why not breastfeed? I am of the frame of mind that it is none of my business or anyone elses where or how a mother decides to fee their baby as long as they are feeding them!
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I have no problem with it. The people who see breasts as sexual objects that should be hidden completely away forget that the sole use for breasts is actually to feed our children. They have been sexualised by society, but they are really used for the most natural thing in the world- looking after our babies.
Fine with me, even in public.
It ‘s fine, its a natural thing x
My baby is very demanding and she requires feed more often than every 3 hours thus meaning if and when we go out I have to prepare myself for breastfeeding in public, so far I did it at in laws and in the park, but I prefer to cover myself than to flesh my boobs
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If I were able to successfully breastfeed, I would certainly do it wherever and whenever my child needed to be fed. Formula milk didn’t exist until recently so what’s the big deal with naturally feeding your offspring?
im all for breastfeeding and breastfed both of mine
Don’t have a problem myself.
No problem with breast feeding in public but it should be the individuals choice…
I think if a woman is comfortable to breastfeed in public then she cam go for it. My baby is due in February but I don’t think I would have the courage to breastfeed in public
I am hoping to breastfeed when our little one is born. I do feel a little uncomfortable about breastfeeding in pregnancy due to hearing stories in the media. I think it is a perfectly natural thing to do though so when it comes round to doing it I am hoping i will just get use to the idea.
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I think it’s OK if it’s done discreetly.
I’m not against breast feeding at all, but feel public places like restaurants or cafe’s they should supply special rooms for mum and baby
I’m kind of in two minds about it. Generally, I don’t see a problem with it. I believe breast milk is better for babies. If a mum is out & about and her baby is hungry, she should feed him/her (we all eat when we’re hungry - so should babies!) However, I’ve been in public situations where I’ve noticed women suddenly whip out a breast to feed their babies and my eyes started to anxiously dart around for another point of focus. I tell myself “it’s only natural”, but it can be quite awkward/uncomfortable. Yes, it’s “natural”, but there are other things we do in life that are “natural” that we wouldn’t dare do in public!
I guess I agree with those who suggest feeding in public is OK if it’s done inconspicuously, i.e. using a shawl or something to cover up. But, ultimately, I think those of us who might not be comfortable with it should be less critical and more understanding, as it’s simply a mother feeding her child.
I was really keen to breastfeed my first baby but I found the whole experience overwhelming. I didn’t like the sensation, I wasn’t supported and helped, I felt self-conscious.
When I said I wasn’t going to do it the hospital staff just said ‘ok’.
When I fell pregnant with my second I was determined NOT to breastfeed.
Bear in mind this was 30 years ago too.. Despite not breastfeeding, both my boys grew normally!
Sometimes it’s just not for you.. Don’t get hung up on it. Sod what everyone else thinks. It’s your body!!
I breastfed all 3 of mine for the first 3 weeks but gave up because was fed up of leakage and smelling of sour milk
I struggled to breastfeed my first child, but I was really determined in order to try and protect him from his Father’s asthma. It took 6 weeks to get it right, and then I continued until he was around 18 months. In all I fed my 5 children for nearly 8 years between them, and none have any allergies, they’re all really healthy and generally get full attendance at school/college/work.
I loved it, I used it as time to sit and relax, play the playstation and watch movies, and read with my other children. I miss it really now!
I was lucky, I have never been harassed for breastfeeding, and by the time you’ve done it for a few weeks the baby is quicker and better at latching and you can be easily completely concealed the whole time. The first 6 weeks are definitely the hardest - get past that and you’re on to a winner.
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I haven’t a problem at all really
Although I didn’t choose to breastfeed, I have no objection to anyone else doing it, I think if people complain then they have serious issues as it a natural thing to do x
I don’t have a problem with it, and I think it’s the mother’s choice as to what she wants to do
I felt horribly pressured into breastfeeding by midwives - I did want to breastfeed my baby but I struggled and didn’t get the support I needed to carry on. Where were all those nagging midwives when I needed them? I gave up completely after 6 weeks. I felt that my breastfeeding experience and the pressure I was under, ruined those first precious days with my baby and I will never, ever get them back. I’m still bitter about it. You can read about my experience in full here: http://www.tinyfootsteps.co.uk/2014/05/my-trials-and-tribulations-of.html
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I have breastfeed both my sons. My first with much more ease than my second son (currently breastfeeding), but I had the best support from a local midwife birthing unit first time around and we cracked it within 48 hours (before going home). However, this time around, I wanted to breastfeed, but son number 2 wasn’t showing a strong enough latch. I had severe pressure from all midwives at the hospital, health visitors and even friends this time to the point that I stopped offering my son the breast and just expressed for 3 weeks. Once I had managed to get rid of the constant visits from health professionals I finally felt confident enough and at ease with myself to try again … my second son is now 12 weeks old and thriving, and has been breastfeed in public since 3 weeks old (with the use of a Snoob Breastfeeding Scarf for privacy).
I totally for it x
It’s completely natural. Why should a baby have to eat his/her meal in a bathroom?
breastfeeding is not a problem at all and no mum should be made to feel bad for doing what is natural for our babies. I unfortunately couldn’t breastfeed my eldest but breastfed my youngest until she was 13 months old never once did i have any negativity
I do not have a problem with it, after all its the best milk a mother can give her baby with all its nutrients.
I’ve no problem with it at all
Definitely for - if your baby needs fed it needs fed!
I have 3 kids and I couldn’t breastfeed my first has my milk supply was so low, I breastfed my 2nd child, and again I couldn’t brestfeed my third as I was on medication. But I am tottaly for brestfeeding in public, it is compleatly natural. And tghe people who have a problem with it should realize that the baby has to eat, people eat in public so why can’t babies?
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I feel uncomfortable around women who breast feed in public, but I know the majority of people have a different opinion
I think it’s healthy to Brest feed anyway.
i wouldn’t do it in public just because i haven’t got the confidence but i don’t have any problem with it
Nothing wrong with it at all
No problem with it all.
I wouldn’t object as long as it was under cover.
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I tried it, I hated it, I stopped and then I felt really really bad for days like a complete failure! Respect to anyone who manages it and all the more so if they’re prepared to do it whenever and wherever needed!
ABSOLUTELY. The more women that breastfeed, the more normalised and less “embarrassing” it becomes to the rest of society. Too many women are ashamed or made to feel ashamed, which is ridiculous. Feeding your baby is no different than feeding food to any other child. Who cares if it’s obvious? Do you wear a scarf over your head to eat? No.
I was incredibly lucky. I had no problems feeding Amy and it was so relaxing. I really think it was the perfect solution for us: I could feed Amy to sleep, sooth her and it really helped us bond. Plus, I think I would have been way to lazy for bottle feeding
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I’m not totally against breastfeeding in public but if you are in a restaurant or theatre say then a little discretion should be used.
I am a big supporter of breastfeeding in public, if a mother feels comfortable to do so - when my son was tiny I felt quite confident to do it discreetly. However, beyond the worry of ‘exposing yourself’ there are other issues with feeding in public - as your baby gets older it becomes a lot more difficult as they are distracted by everything! There should be more support for breastfeeding in public places but with private spaces - so chairs in bathrooms/baby changing rooms or dedicated ‘feeding rooms’ in towns. xx
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100% for it’s natural and if someone has an issue they can just not look.
I see nothing wrong with it at all
Of course it’s a good idea
I don’t have a problem with breast feeding and I can’t quite understand how so many people are so against it these days. Its such a natural thing to do. And I wish I could have breastfed myself. After a traumatic birth resulting in a emergency c section under general I was very I’ll after x
It’s Ok as long as it is covered.
I think it seems the natural thing to do however I do think you should think of others where you pick and choose to do it. I mean lots of things are classed as natural but it does not mean everyone else would like to watch it taking place. I have no real problem personally, I am not brave enough to freely feed in public but each to there own in order to bring up their own child.
all down to individual choice
it doesnt bother me if a woman does breast feed in public but i agree with you it needs to be discreet to stop people feeling embarrased and not knowing where to look
No problem with it
I think breastfeeding is wonderful and wish I could have done it. However my 1st was a month premature and my milk just did not come for a few days and I went through all sorts of problems. So I think that no one should be pressurised or put off either way
I don’t understand why people are asked to stop breastfeeding. People should be encouraged to breastfeed, it’s better for mums and babies (but not the formula companies.) I think mostly people breastfeed in public without an issue.
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I breastfed both of my babies and was happy to do so in public. It is a shame that so few shops and restaurants cater for breastfeeding mothers and their children and you sometimes feel forced into feeding in toilets, which is not hugely pleasant. I applaud businesses who have a designated feeding and changing room, which often have bottle warming facilities too. It makes it a more pleasant experience and allows privacy in a comfortable setting.
I find it a shame that whilst the NHS is very pro-breastfeeding, there is a lack of support in the early days after you have left hospital. Very often this is when it is most painful and I think it’s a shame that so many women give up at this point when it should be made clearer to them that it’s only temporary , the pain won’t last long term and support is availabile.
It baffles me that anyone has a problem with it in this day and age. It’s (ALMOST LITERALLY) the most natural thing in the world!
It’s one of the most natural things to do and if you’re covered up discreetly, I can’t see how anyone has the right to be offended by it.
I don’t have anything against it as long as they don’t fully get their tit out in public lol
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hi i am a mum of 4 and regretted not feeding my 3rd child but i did do my 4 child.the bond we had was so amazing and i wish i had done it with them all.i was helped by great midwives to help her latch properly and then was all systems go.the older kids thought it was amazing when i brought her home and i would sometimes express milk so not to leave them out.my only down fall of breastfeeding when my daughter was around 6 weeks she was poorly and had to go to hospital and becuase we had to wait in waiitning room she needed a feed so i asked staff if i could feed her they said no and put me in a cupboard where the y stocked toilet rolls and there we both stayed for 40 minutes which was a shame.i only fed her outside with expressed milk due to stares i had in past when i had to feed her while we were out for a family day so in the end i resulted in going back to car to feed her.i am tottaly for feeding in public but shame others dont think the same.i hope people in the future accept it as something great and natural and not disguisting xxxxxxx
If women don’t want to that’s fine, but if they do that’s fine as well - it’s a natural thing and should be completely up to the mother - not for those to judge around her.
I think if as a mother you wish to breastfeed then that’s your choice, don’t allow others to change your opinion.
Personally I never breastfed in public but I never did it for that long as both kids didn’t get the hang of it! I wouldn’t ever do it myself for religious reasons but I have no problem with others doing it, would be nice if you have a cover or shawl or something. I’ve seen some really lovely cover ups.
For in a discreet way
Definitely for! Mummies should not feel like they are in the wrong for feeding their baby!
I have absolutely no problem breastfeeding in public, recognizing that saying so is a somewhat meaningless remark. If I were in a park and someone started breastfeeding, I wouldn’t care at all. However, if I were in the cinema and it started happening, I would be annoyed.
This is such an interesting debate. I agree that healthcare professionals can be too push which puts too much pressure on new mums. I also think that everyone seems to have an opinion on the right or wrong way to breastfeed and to any new mum this is very daunting. I had a lot of difficulty with my first who wouldn’t latch on and so ended up expressing for about three weeks before switching over to bottle. I plan on trying again with my second, but just going to ignore everyone trying to shove their opinions at me. Great post and thanks for the giveaway xx
This is such an interesting debate. I agree that healthcare professionals can be too push which puts too much pressure on new mums. I also think that everyone seems to have an opinion on the right or wrong way to breastfeed and to any new mum this is very daunting. I had a lot of difficulty with my first who wouldn’t latch on and so ended up expressing for about three weeks before switching over to bottle. I plan on trying again with my second, but just going to ignore everyone trying to shove their opinions at me. Great post and thanks for the giveaway xx - See more at: http://mymillsbaby.co.uk/2014/08/breastfeeding-win-a-50-amazon-voucher/#comment-157889
I think breastfeeding in public should be seen as an everyday thing, it is natural and the best thing for baby you shouldn’t be made to feel uncomfortable. I did and will also do it with my next baby the more mum’s that do it the more it will be become an everyday thing.
all for it if your baby is hungry then feed it, but I do think mothers should place cover over baby and boob.
My daughter never took to the breast, but it should be embraced. Forget the stuck ups who frown, breast feed with pride!
I don’t see an issue with it at all - I think mother’s shouldn’t have to answer to anyone when it comes to breastfeeding or not, as long as they are doing right by the baby who are we to judge.
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I’ve not had children but I’m definitely for! I find it bizarre that a newspaper can have a page 3 but people are unhappy to see a woman’s nipples whilst doing their job nourishing a child.
No problem, I don’t think in all my years I have ever seen anyone do it though
I nurse in public as when my baby is hungry I will not deny them food, however I do find the whole taboo around breast feeding in public affects me. I always feed under a muslin and if my little one unlatches and is distressed I will find myself trying to cover myself up first before tending to them which I always feel guilty for.
As for the pressure from midwives to breastfeed I didn’t find it over powering after I found out the NHS spends 20p on promotion per person as opposed to the formula companies whooping £20.
What has been highlighted as an issue in my case is the lack of continuity in pro breastfeeding amongst health professionals as my GP once quizzed me on how I knew I was getting enough milk (I could express a bottle in two minutes) and pushed me to use formula.
I can’t understand the logic behind attacking breastfeeding mothers, if the baby is hungry they need to be fed…what sort of person thinks that a baby should starve because they have some messed-up ideas about women’s bodies? It’s a bit weird seeing breastfeeding at first, but that’s just because we’re not used to it, the more women feel comfortable breastfeeding in public the easier it becomes for everyone.
I’ve seen people arguing that women should breastfeed at home which essentially suggests women should stay at home until their children are weaned, that women should pump milk which shows ignorance of breastfeeding, that women should feed their children in toilets which is saying women should be ashamed (also, who wants to eat lunch in a toilet cubicle?!), that they should cover babies heads…you cover YOUR head if it offends you, and of course that wonderful argument of suggesting we should be okay with public deification as ‘it’s natural’.
perfectly natural, let it be.
I did not breast feed but I have nothing against it. It is one of the most natural things in the world, I have no idea why people get their knickers in a bunch over it
I bf my son and think u shud ve able to feed anywhere!!!
I am all for personal choice, and would support mum’s right to breast feed in public, if they choose.
However, I would not breast feed in public, because I prefer to express and bottle.
my reason is that I was in a cafe, with a group of new mum’s, and we were breast feeding.
Some school boys were very embarrassed.
This along with some pervy older men squirming in their seats, put me off.
I know, it is their problem, but it felt like mine.
I wouldn’t do it again .. once was enough.
no problem
I couldn’t get on with breast feeding as my son had a severe tongue tie - but I have no issue at all with breastfeeding in public.
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i didn’t breastfeed by choice and got criticized for not doing it which I didn’t think was fair as my daughter was fine without it but I don’t have a problem with people that do breastfeed. I think that it goes both ways and people should just let people do what they want and are comfortable with
It’s the most natural thing in the world and I am pro - however it is stressful enough being a new mum without people staring and making comments towards you.
I’m for breastfeeding in public, but discreetly. I breast fed for a short while, but my babies were 9lb 4oz and 10lb, so I switched to formula after a few months. I did find I felt confined to the house when breastfeeding and felt I wanted to go upstairs to it when I had visitors.
I have no problem with breastfeeding in public, if the mother is comfortable with it.
prefer not to see in public
for it , but i covered myself for my own dignity
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I think breast feeding is natural and mothers should be able to do this where ever they feel comfortable. I think more mums would choose to breast feed if this wasn’t an issue.
glad I’m never going to have to do this!
I think most people are ok about it if its done discreetly.
I think it’s natural and ok, but not everyone does. Some people feel uncomfortable with, which is totally understandable and I think places such as shopping centres etc should do more to provide facilities.
Of course breastfeeding should be allowed anywhere — it’s what breasts are for, after all!
I’m so strongly for it! It’s natural & should & is allowed! In public or wherever you are. If people complain, tell them to grow up! Lol
I feel like if your baby is hungry, you should feed him/her whenever you see fit.
I have no objection to a mother breastfeeding, in fact I would rather that than a screaming baby HOWEVER, I dont need to know about it. What happened to discretion????? I breastfed both of my children, and no one else noticed. My sister breastfed her daughter at my wedding reception during the speeches and no one noticed. Its called discretion and a little more of it would go a long way.
I think in public it’s fine if you cover yourself with a shawl
I don’t think it’s wrong to breast-feed in public and you can cover up. I mainly think it’s a bit embarassing for people when they see a woman doing so because they don’t know where to look and may feel uncomfortable. Doesn’t bother me but I’m a female anyway.
Breastfeeding is completely natural and should be an essential part of a baby’s life. Maternal milk provides certain benefits and no alternative is adequate.
i was unsuccessful with breastfeeding C but i’m hoping to be able to this time. i’m hoping to do it in public too. i dont think i should have to hide it
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I am for breastfeeding wherever and whenever the baby needs it -they are the priority and you shouldn’t have to stay home to please other people. I even answered the door to the postman feeding.
I have no problem at all with women breastfeeding in public. I tried a few years ago and did get strange looks which makes you feel very awkward!
I didn’t breastfeed but it’s the most natural thing in the world and I think every mother should do what she believes best for her baby and she should be able to feed her baby wherever she needs/wants to
It should be actively encouraged!
I think every mother should be relaxed about what ever they chose breast or bottle, it’s their choice.
I am comfortable seeing women breast feeding in public but think some men I know would feel uncomfortable. I tried feeding but it was far too painful!!
I have 6 children and I have fed them all until they are toddlers and will continue the same with Sebastian.
My eldest is now 21 and facilities and clothing are so much better now than they were. I breastfeed in public, but do it discreetly…….there are mums out there that put it all on display and that makes even me feel uncomfortable, it is as if they are trying to get a bad reaction.
I have a scarf but rarely use it, prefering to wear nursing clothes that are designed to cover as much as possible.
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I dont see why anybody would be against people breastfeeding in public! Would they be against me feeding my child a bottle in public? I doubt it, people who are against it need to get over themselves. How people feed their child is their decision and if thats boobies or bottles they should feel comfortable doing it wherever necessary.
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I have no problem
I don’t see a problem feeding babies in public as long as Mum’s are discreet about it.
Well my baby is due on 26th August and I intend to breastfeed if all goes well. I know that I’m probably going to feel funny breast feeding in public but I know that I shouldn’t have to feel that way. I don’t want to feel restricted in going out and about and I shouldn’t have to consider using a bottle when out just for what others opinions may be. I’m hoping that when the time comes I will be able to forget what others are thinking and just concentrate on what my baby needs! It will be wonderful when the day comes that all mums can feel happy to breastfeed in public if they wish to.
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I didn’t breastfeed but I don’t have a problem with other women doing so in public, I think it’s a shame that women are often made to feel guilty for breast feeding in public for what it’s worth I was often made to feel guilty for bottle feeding so you can’t win either way.
I was unable to feed either of my kids as they had latching issues but would have loved to. I am 100% for women breastfeeding anywhere they want to! Its a natural thing and boobs are for food! NOT SEX!!
It’s not a problem babies have to eat, I’ve never breast fed before because of this very same issue
I am for it but I’m self concious doing it. However, I did have a good experience a few days ago when a woman told me a story about how breastfeeding her infant had saved her life and she congratulated me for doing it in public, so that was encouraging.
I’m definitely pro feeding in public. I used to just wap them out whenever my little girl needed feeding and never met with any negative experiences at all. That’s not to say I wouldn’t choose a feeding room if it was available, like say in mothercare
I have no problem with women breastfeeding in public, it’s such a natural thing. It winds me up when you hear stories about women who have been asked to stop or leave premises.
Feeding baby is a basic necessity. Do we object to children and adults eating in public? I have no problem with a baby being fed in public.
I don’t have a problem with the natural act of breastfeeding, in public or anywhere. In fact, I find it very difficult to understand why some people do have a problem!
I am for breastfeeding in public, its a natural thing. There are alot worse things I am objected to do when i am out and about.
I can’t see any problem with breastfeeding in public, if a baby is hungry it needs to be fed
I agree with breastfeeding in public. It is natural and people shouldnt stare and make you feel awkward
I breastfed both my boys in public without problem but wouldn’t have considered it without the discretion of a nursing bra and nursing tops.
I have fed all four of my children in public and thankfully have never had a negative experience.
My wife tried to breast feed but the kids never liked it and not enough ever came out !
I have no problem with it at all, I breastfeed my eldest for almost 14 months and I am now feeding my second and she’s 8.5 months. I have never had any negative comments, but my father in law is a bit funny about it and has to leave the room. My mother in law is a bit affronted about it as it means she couldn’t have the kids and there was the snide remarks about my sister in law bottle feeding so she could have the baby more!! Also the my three were bottle fed and they are all fine comment, but I just ignore it and carry on as I think it is the best choice for me
i breast fed my son for 5 weeks but was so exhausted my husband said enough was enough and we changed to formula. We never looked back, he was full after each feed and I had more energy.
My daughter is 19 months old and I still breastfeed her, I do it in public, sometimes I haven’t got a cloth to cover myself so I just simply take my breast out and feed her! If someone give me a bad look I give them back TWICE as bad. I don’t care to be honest, breastfeeding is the most amazing thing. There are girls who walk half naked on the streets and nobody is stopping them and asking to go and get changed. it really makes me angry how people treat the most natural thing like a crime!
I am 100% for breastfeeding in public, why should the baby/mother suffer because of others. I didn’t breastfeed, personal choice, but if I had I would have fed my baby wherever and whenever he needed feeding.
We are becoming such a nanny state, we wont be able to wear bikinis on the beach soon!
I don’t find breastfeeding in public offensive. I agree with the comment about PDAs. That is much more offensive! Plus most mothers wear a nursing top/ shawl so it’s quite discrete.
I have absolutely no problem with breastfeeding in public - often you can be sitting close to a mother who is doing it and not even realise because no big deal is made out of it.
I am currently exclusively breastfeeding my daughter (9 weeks) and fed my other two children for 7 months. I breastfeed in public, and have invested in a few good breastfeeding tops that mean I can do so fairly discreetly and comfortably. I’ve never had any negative comments - only positive, and think that the recent media focus on negative comments has been disproportionate and only serves to scare more women off of breastfeeding rather than encourage them! Let’s hear more positive stories please!
doesnt bother me
Women should be able to feed their babies in public, i struggled as i didnt feel comfortable with my own body but thats fine.
I have no issue with it at all, it’s the most natural thing in the world.
I think you should feed your baby however and wherever you like.
I breastfed for the first 8 months of my daughters life and never hesitated to do it in public if necessary. Breastfeeding is usually very discrete and no-one ever passed comment when I did it.
It’s not for everyone though and if a mother can’t or doesn’t want to breastfeed then that’s fine too.
I don’t have any children unfortunately but I think so long as its discreet, breastfeeding in public isn’t a problem. If its not discreet you will get comments, gawkers etc
I was happily breastfeeding my babies in public 30 years ago and never had any negative response. People are happy to eat and drink while walking along the street now - you hardly ever pass anybody who isn’t clutching a coffee mug or a half-eaten sandwich - so why shouldn’t a baby be allowed to do the same?
Ii agree with a lot of what you have said in this article. I do believe that the pressure put on new mums and the guilt you feel if you cannot successfully breastfeed can lead to PND. My own experience of BF was exactly that after a traumatic birth and a long recovery it was all about BF. Breasts being squished into position by various strangers at hospital into my child’s mouth. I hated it and was told by my husband at one point…it’s not about you is it. I felt really isolated as because of my birthing injuries I could only do it lying down. This led to about 4 months of isolation until I mastered it properly sitting up. I never did manage to do it in public because of my own insecurities. I began to love love love it when my boy was 6 months and then I faced the disapproving comments of older relatives who felt I should be stopping as he was “too big”. Ugggh I happily continued to just after his 1st birthday and hope that when my next baby arrives in 1 weeks time Bf will be a more joyous occasion and I will break my bf in public fears!!!
would feel uncomfortable breastfeeding in public myself, fine if someone else is brave enough…
I was young and single when I had my first child and I got no support from the midwives to breastfeed him. I did feed him for a few days but they took him away at night and fed him bottles then he was vomiting from feeding too much. He ended up being bottle fed and I was very resentful about it. I have since had three more children and all of them were breastfed until they were around one year old. It is much easier than bottles and I never had any problems feeding in public.
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i dont get why people have an issue. some people may feel embarrassed by the situation but they can remove themselves if they have a problem. if a baby needs feeding then that is all that matters.
Definitely for it. It’s the most natural thing in the world and to be made feel ashamed of it is just wrong! If people have a problem with it then THEY should leave, not the woman who is just trying to feed her child.
I love this story: http://www.sheknows.com/parenting/articles/1042277/mom-breastfeeds-at-starbucks-employee-stands-up-for-her
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I don’t have a problem with breastfeeding in public but covering up a bit might help convince the detractors, particularly in places such as restaurants.
I breastfed my daughter. At first I was very reluctant to do so in public, but I got used to it after a while.
I breastfed in public, but I was discreet about it. I didn’t just lift my top up flash my boobs at everyone. If people are discreet, I don’t see anything wrong with it.
I dont have a problem with breastfeeding, Its healthier for the baby so why deny the best for your baby?
you can breast feed in public discreetly and i think this should become normalised.
All for it as long as the mother feels comfortable x
I didn`t breastfeed but think it is up to the individual, women shouldn`t feel pressured to breastfed. I do think a little discretion is needed if breastfeeding in public.
I breastfed both my children - including in public when the need arose. I always did it discretely and never had any negative comments. It is a wonderful natural process and mothers have a right to do it - but I think we must always be aware of the feelings of others and do it discretely.
No problem with it at all
Not really, things have changed since my day
I think breastfeeding is fab, its totally natural. I didnt manage with my first as i was too poorly but breastfed my second for a couple of weeks. I found it really difficult and the pressure to breastfeed is ridiculous. I do wish there was more support out there for bottle feeding mams!
I am pro-breastfeeding, although I support women who choose not to do so (for whatever reason). I believe that women should be able to breastfeed in public without being insulted, shamed, mocked, or otherwise mistreated. I think the common societal view of breasts being solely sexual is unhealthy and a detriment to women.
I did it in public when I got more confident and established and have no issue with mums doing it in public!
no problem with it at all, would rather a woman descreetly feeding a baby than a screaming one because its hungry!
I personally don’t think there is anything wrong with it. it is a part of nature.
I agree with the whole “free the nipple” campaign, and I agree that breast feeding should be allowed in public .
I’m all for breast feeding in public. I think it’s important it becomes the norm. No one should be embarrassed by it, it’s natural. It’s quite simple, if you don’t like it, don’t look.
I couldn’t BF as was too ill with PND with my first and my second had to be fed on the hour every hour for an exhausting 4 days and nights to test for diabetes.. I couldn’t bring myself to feed that much plus with her being a large baby at 10lbs odd her head was bigger than my two breasts put together! Because of this though, i had so much negative attitudes from health professionals and was put down by many other mums at baby groups, this is wrong. I never felt anything bad towards them for being able to BF, it just so happened it was best for me not to. In public though, I can see why some people may be offended but the argument is you wouldn’t put a blanket over a bottle fed baby so I’ve never had anything against. As long as the baby is getting fed, why should it matter what method is used?
I got slagged off on twitter and FB for suggesting that you can feed in public without flashing your boobs about but I 100% stand by the comment. I breastfed both of my children anywhere and everywhere but never flashed people. Number 1 , I didn’t want the world to see my boobs, Number 2, I’m sure the world didn’t want to see them either and Number 3 I know it’s more about feeding your baby than anything else but I always fed mine successfully and discreetly,
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I am currently breastfeeding my 14 month old, and will do so in public when needed! I am thankful that I have never had any negative comments, or dirty looks as far as I am aware! But then as it is a perfectly natural thing to do I don’t make a big deal out of it and don’t really pay any attention to anyone else anyway!
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I’m pro breast feeding. I found it extremely difficult with both of my children and only managed a few days before my midwife said it was OK to use the bottle rather than get to the point where I’d dread each feed and be in a cold sweat. I wish I could have done it but my children haven’t tangibly suffered as a result.
Breast feeding in public is a definite yes. I think it can be done with discretion and is a natural way to feed your baby so why not?
Agree that it’s the most natural thing but should be done discreetly when out in public
I think every woman should have the right to brestfeed.
I breastfeed my three children and never once found it to be a problem in public places.
I think breast feeding should be viewed as one of the most natural things and people should feel comfortable seeing this. This however, isn’t the case and I have always worried that if I were to breastfeed publicly I would incur the ire of some.
I’m not a mum myself, but I fully support any breast feeding mums out there. I think they should be able to do it in public without any anxiety. If I didn’t want to see it, I would just look away or walk away. Babies should always come first.
I didnt breast feed my daughter i wanted to but found it difficult and i got no help from midwives and my daughter went from being born at just after 10am till 6pm when a midwife told me just give her a bottle which i was very dissappointed with, i really wanted to breast feed but there was just no help provided for me at all. I have no problem with breast feeding in public, people can sit and have lunch in cafes on a park bench etc so why cant a baby do the same. I cant understand all the negativity over a mother feeding her child
I think mothers should be able to breastfeed anywhere they would be able to bottle feed. Women should not be made to feel uncomfortable for feeding their babies in public places. Seeing a mother breastfeeding her baby in a restaurant is much nicer than listening to it cry for a feed throughout the meal. I don’t agree with women who want to feed in places like swimming pools just as I wouldn’t want a baby being bottle fed there or a child having a sandwich in the water.
Absolutely for.
I am not against breast feeding in public
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I breastfeed both my boys and fed them both outside if they were hungry. It is completely natural and should not be a problem.
Totally for it, its possible to breastfeed and not show off loads of flesh. I feel uncomfortable doing it as I wouldn’t want anyone to see bits of me which are normally covered up and due to negativity it does make me feel uncomfortable but I would still do it if I was still breastfeeding. I am sorry but if someone feels offended then they should walk away and not look, what happened to it being a free country? its ridiculous that breastfeeding in public gets such a negative response, mainly from ignorant people.
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I have no problem with it, I breastfed in public once and to be honest I admit I hid in a corner whilst doing it because I felt awkward/ like everyone was staring at me. it shouln’t be like this!! x
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It’s a womens choice where she feeds her child…if someone else feels uncomfortable they should walk away. Breastfeeding your child is a bonding experience for mother and baby, who cares what others think!!!
It makes me so unbelievably angry when people are against breastfeeding in public. Women’s breasts are for feeding children there is no exposure about it it’s ridiculous that something that is so natural and is in order for a baby to survive is offensive to some people.
I am not against those who don’t breast feed as I think it’s a personal decision but I am totally against people who think breastfeeding in public is offensive!
I breastfed for 11 months with no problems what so ever. I’m aware I was very lucky for this. I expressed so that if I needed to feed my son when out he could have a bottle. I was caught short a couple of times and I fed him under a baggy top in the corner of a coffee shop or in designated feeding areas in places such as mother care and John Lewis. I didn’t face any negativity although all of my friends chose to use formula for their babies. I did feel that the once the midwives found that I was fine with breastfeeding they wanted little more to do with me and offered no more support, it was like their work was done.
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I’m for breast feeding I think it’s totally natural and best for baby and mum x
I am all for women feeding their babies naturally in public. Unfortunately, it is the ignorance and immaturity of other people that make such a fuss about mothers doing it in public.
breast feed all you like, I just don’t want to see it in public thank you.. use a shawl or blanket to cover up…
I really don’t think breastfeeding should be done in public. Breasts on display in public are sadly often going to attract the wrong attention and I personally feel uncomfortable seeing breasts exposed. Having said that I feel there should be many more areas provided for women to breast feed. They shouldn’t be expected to just feed their babies in toilets.
i didnt breast feed but think that it is important others do
For. Mums should feed their baby however they choose, what ever is right for her and her baby. Its no-one elses business!
I didn’t breastfeed my two daughters because of various problems but I wish I’d persevered/had more help with it.
I’m very much for freedom to breastfeed any place and would stand up for anyone having a bad experience/negativity.
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I breast fed both of my children for 12 months and I fed them wherever we were. If your hungry you get something to eat in public why not a baby? Why should you hide the most natural thing in the world.
I breastfed twins, not as long as I would liked if I had just one, but for 4 and a half and five and a half months. I breastfed wherever I was there is no way I could stay in the house all the time just because people cannot accept a natural process.
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I have no problem with it!
No problem with it at all
No problem.
I breastfed my four children and never encountered any negative comments, surely those people who complain about breastfeeding in public should realise that it’s perfectly natural and if they don’t like it they should look the other way.
Do it in private
I breastfed all 4 of my children till over a year old and did feed them in public. There is nothing wrong with mothers feeding their children, but it can be done discreetly.
I didn’t face any problems in the early days, but towards the end of our breastfeeding journey (I fed my second for 22 months) we had more comments about him being too old
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I think its ok to breastfeed in public but personally i would try to be a bit stylish about it. Such as a scarf over me.
Completely for it, breastfeeding in public shouldn’t be an issue.
I breastfed my son for 18 months. It is something I am exceptionally proud of. We had a traumatic birth but I was determined to feed him as quickly as possible and did as soon as he was checked out. It was the most natural thing in the world to me. Yes I had the odd mastitis moment and bitten nipples but feeding my baby was the most wonderful thing in the world. I didn’t feed in public really though, because of my own shyness. I have no issue with mothers feeding their babies publicly. What I do have is a problem with people who push mothers to not breastfeed and to stop sooner than they are ready. There seems to be this insistence of others to separate mothers and their children to please others. We are still stuck in the post war years where bottles are still fashionable. It makes me very angry when people criticise breastfeeding mothers, it is those people with the problem.
I breast fed for 3 months i didnt enjoy doing it in public. I dont mind people feeding their babies but what does get me is, as a first time mum why breast is best is pushed at you so much so that when you give up because its not for you, you feel a favour. Lots of these breast festivals tend to make other mothers not feel good enough with some of the comments these women say. It doesnt matter how you feed your baby as long as you are doing a good job!!!
I don’t have an issues with anyone breastfeeding as I feel it is up to the individual to make their own decisions. I’m not offended by it but I do think that they isn’t enough places (for example - coffee shops, shopping centres) were their is any private areas for new mothers.
I must admit as a breastfeeding Mum I always aimed to feed indoors and in private.
There were only two occasions that I was caught out and had to breastfeed huddled up in A) bus shelter & B) cafe
I think it was cos I have such big boobs (34G - I hate how huge they are) so I struggled to feed discreetly - if I did it in public then everyone would have seen it all and probably put them off their next meal! :p
Breastfed both of my children, and found it tough for the first few weeks (painful, sore nipples) but was so glad I kept going as I could feed them when out & about without having to worry about taking bottles out and keeping them sterile (this was before you could get individual cartons of made up baby milk)
I don’t have a problem with feeding when out, never got any comments made to me when I did it, thankfully
I am for breastfeeding in public and had lots of positive experiences and comments when I was breastfeeding in public, with many people commenting how lovely it was to see someone confidently breastfeeding in public.
Breasts exist primarily to feed offspring, it is the media and men that have sexualised them. It is perfectly natural to feed a child in public and if you are offended by that you need to take a long hard look at yourself!
I have breast fed my two girls til just over a year old, very proud of myself but feel it is totally up to each mum to do what is best for them and their family. I’ve breastfed in public loads and never had a negative comment or been asked to move etc. My husband and family were all very supportive of me and I’m happy to have given my girls a great start and do miss feeding them, it is such a special bond.
Breast feeding in public is not a problem as long as the mother is discreet and is not trying to make it obvious!
I’m all for it, but be discreet. Don’t go waving your boobs in people’s faces. There is a way to do it where no one has to see anything.
I personally don’t agree with breastfeeding in public x
I have nevr breast fed in public but I don’t see why there is a problem for mums to do so!
I breastfed my son but not for as long as I would like, if I have another baby I will try to breastfeed for longer. I’m not against breastfeeding in public although I didn’t have the confidence to do it.
I breastfed both my children till they were 1 and although it gets easier as they get older, I used to go out around breastfeeding so I didn’t hopefully need to feed them whilst I was out. But I had no problem feeding them in public and never came across any issues when I did.
i am 100% for it, people should have the choice and it’s the most natural thing, what i also really don’t like is mum shaming for bottle feeding x
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fine with me anywhere
As long as it’s discrete then breast feeding in public is fine. I couldn’t breast feed due to medication I am on but I think you have to be relaxed about what happens.
As long as it is done discretely I don’t see how anyone could object to a mother breastfeeding her child
i have no issue with woman breastfeeding in public, i feel a little uncomfortable when i see it, but it does not offend me, i breastfed for a month and only let my boyfriend see me do it, i just didnt feel comfortable anyone seeing me, but end of the day its each to their own, and to be honest if your baby is hungry then i cant see an issue with feeding it then and there if you are comfortable to do so.
i diddnt breastfeed either of our children - but i think its the most natural thing in the world and dont see anything wrong with doing it in public
no problem- its naturAL
I think its outrageous when i hear about these stories where breast feeding mothers where faced with negative comments, its the most natural thing in the world and noone should have to hide away when feeding their baby. I breastfeed all my 4 childern until there were 1 year old and i was lucky not to have had any negative comments or dirty looks.. but if i had believe me i was ready for them and they would have felt my wrath x
I think breastfeeding is absolutely natural and beautiful and should be encouraged in public places
Ridiculous fuss people make, its so natural and if mums comfortable so should everyone else be
No problem with women doing it in public but use a light blanket to cover the baby.
I found if others were uncomfortable, so was I, Sadly now I have the confidence to be more assertive I no longer have babies to feed! New Mums can be very vulnerable. I was always discreet - it’s not like I stripped naked to the waist! Some older people are uncomfortable and I think it’s common courtesy to respect the feelings of others. That said. if my baby was hungry, I fed them discreetly.
completey fine - people should be fine as long as you are discreet!
I didn’t breastfeed my children however I do believe it should be the woman’s choice where she feeds
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it’s fine, its a natural thing
go for it as long as u r modest
It’s natural and I’m for it. Of course, mothers need to consider that some people are sensitive. If only more provision was made for nursing mothers in public places, such as designated clean, comfortable areas, it wouldn’t be such an issue.
Breastfeeding is the most natural thing a mother can do. I am FOR breastfeeding in public!!
I didn’t choose to breastfeed myself but I don’t have an issue with people doing it in public and think this should be allowed everywhere.
I am definitely for breastfeeding in public. When I was breastfeeding (my lo has just turned 2, I breastfed him until he was one) I was very self-conscious to start with, and used to go to the “breastfeeding rooms” ie. toilets to feed him. I’d never do that now I have more confidence, it’s such a horrible place for people to makeyou go and feed your baby. I think it should be done discreetly, and if you are self conscious there are plenty of scarves etc that can help in covering up your modesty, also with practice it gets easier.
Breastfeeding is the most special thing and I can’t believe how some people are actually against it!
I think that it should be accepted in public people need to get over it , it’s the most natural thing in the world !
Breast feeding is the most natural thing in the world and it is dreadful that it is often treated as something to hide or be ashamed of.
I think it’s ok to breastfeed in public
there is nothing wrong with breast feeding in public , its natures way x
I believe women should be allowed to breast feed in public, I have no problem with it but I do wish people would be more sensitive of the feelings of those who bottle feed too. I tried to breastfeed but my body could not produce milk so I switched to formula which left me heartbroken and feeling like a failure, even though it was what was best for my son. It was made worse by the comments of others in baby groups who clearly disapproved of my bottle feeding!
I didn’t breast feed my children but I do not have a problem with anyone else doing it, it’s natural x
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I’m definitely for breastfeeding in public; afterall, it’s a right afforded by the law for mother and child. I’ve been very thankful to be able to feed my child on the go. I remember the early days when feeding especially tied me down to the house and made me so anxious when it came to going out. After reading many stories of women feeding in public and seeing how other women do it, my confidence continues to increase about feeding in public. I’ve fed in special feeding rooms, in a restaurant, in a pub, at the bank, in the park, at the surgery etc. I must note that I breastfeed in public with as much cover as I can maintain with my active little one. I’m fascinated by those who do it so well without cover and I aspire to this. I really think it’s so beautiful to see people participating in an age old tradition (breastfeeding) that has particularly contributed to the continuation of life on earth and even more to be part of it.
I haven’t had a negative experience yet and I hope never.
I’m about 6months new to breastfeeding and I hope it’s the start of many years of breastfeeding to come. I haven’t had it easy either, I feel I’ve had to fight an often uphill battle to keep it going. I’m in a much better place now; so much can be said for persistence and definitely looking to God for help in my case. I have also known good support when i’ve known where to look and looked.
For me, it’s one of the best things I can give my child, i consider it to be a privilege and a honour. I’m so very thankful that I can breastfeed and do so in public too.
I’m definitely for breastfeeding in public; afterall, it’s a right afforded by the law for mother and child. I’ve been very thankful to be able to feed my child on the go. I remember the early days when feeding especially tied me down to the house and made me so anxious when it came to going out. After reading many stories of women feeding in public and seeing how other women do it, my confidence continues to increase about feeding in public. I’ve fed in special feeding rooms, in a restaurant, in a pub, at the bank, in the park, at the surgery etc. I must note that I breastfeed in public with as much cover as I can maintain with my active little one. I’m fascinated by those who do it so well without cover and I aspire to this. I really think it’s so beautiful to see people participating in an age old tradition (breastfeeding) that has particularly contributed to the continuation of life on earth and even more to be part of it.
I haven’t had a negative experience yet and I hope never.
I’m about 6months new to breastfeeding and I hope it’s the start of many years of breastfeeding to come. I haven’t had it easy either, I feel I’ve had to fight an often uphill battle to keep it going. I’m in a much better place now; so much can be said for persistence and definitely looking to God for help in my case. I have also known good support when i’ve known where to look and looked.
For me, it’s one of the best things I can give my child, i consider it to be a privilege and a honour. I’m so very thankful that I can breastfeed and do so in public too.
I only breastfed for 3 weeks, personally I don’t like to see it in public, unless it is done discreetly.
I’m all for it. I planned to do it myself but unfortunately didn’t produce enough milk and my daughter is lactose intolerant.
I am currently breastfeeding my third and I love it so convienent and breastfeed everywhere even at a Governors meeting at school and even at a funeral
I think any woman should be able to breastfeed her baby anywhere in public, but we all know not everyone is going to agree. Just use a bit of common sense. I , personally, wouldn’t choose to do it if there were any teenage lads of older men around, just because it’s embarresing for both parties, but really; if anyone else complains or looks down on you; screw em!!
After a terrible expreience of trying to breastfeed my first son I decided to not even try with my second so as not to get worked up & have a more relaxing expreience. I have no problem with other women breastfeeding in public though.
From a male point of view, I avert my eyes as I think it’s quite a private thing, even if it is natural. I’m not offended tho.
I am due to have my baby in three weeks and hope to breast feed. I feel shy about breastfeeding in public however I think that it is perfectly normal and will be doing this when I need to.
I am 4 months pregnant with my first and plan on breastfeeding. It is what our breasts are designed for and anyone who objects to breastfeeding in public is simply ignorant. I think the people who complain should be asked to move to another establishment, not the mother who is simply feeding her child the most natural thing possible.
Am for if you want to, why not?! I have had two negative comments in over 4 years of breastfeeding in public but many, many more people commenting on how nice it is to see a baby being fed ‘properly’…
I am all for it. I had an embarrassing experience with breastfeeding when my daughter was tiny. I’d gone to one of those child play areas to run some energy off the older two, got myself tucked away in a corner and had a baby blanket covering my feeding child. I was asked by a member of staff to take her into the toilets to do it, since other customers were offended by it. When I said I couldn’t leave my other two children to their own devices (3 and 5) I was told to take them into the toilets with me whilst I fed her. I was embarrassed and ended up walking them all home before I could feed her. Didn’t help that I was suffering post natal depression at that point either. I never went back.
I was unable to breastfeed so can’t comment from a mum’s point of view. I think many many women breastfeed in cafe’s etc and we don’t even notice, these mum’s should carry on as they are, it’s as it should be. The women that annoy so many people are the ones who show an awful lot when they’re doing it, usually to prove a point. They make it harder for the normal everyday mums who just want to naturally feed their babies. They are causing all the upset I think.
its ok to breast feed in public as long as some privacy given to others around especially if in a restaurant
I breastfed my son until he was 14 months old and never encountered any problems - I’d like to see more people happy to do it in public so it becomes less taboo!
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I have no issues with women breast feeding in public. I never breastfed as my son was in NICU when he was born however I would have given the chance.
I didn’t breast feed. I was very young when I had my daughter and at that time didn’t feel it was for me.
However if I had my chance over it is something I would definitely consider.
I have no issue with public breast feeding, I do feel that if using a cover up and being discreet then people have nothing to complain about. It’s a natural thing to do but there will always be people who may feel embarrassed and their opinions should be respected.
I’m all for breastfeeding but probably wouldn’t feel comfortable doing it in public in case someone said something negative to me
I never had any negativity and I breast fed my son in public lots of times until he stopped at 14 months.
I have always breastfed in public, including a Pakistani-run restaurant and at the top of the Eiffel Tower! Nobody has ever said anything negative in my direction but that may be as I don’t look like I would just take it. I have one of those faces.
Wouldn’t say I was against it but I don’t think it should be so public, covering up would be fine but It seems that some women just want to be like “HELLO EVERYONE, I AM BREASTFEEDING”
I think you should be able to breastfeed anywhere without question
I feel that women should be able to do it in public, but must do so discreetly. I think it is a personal thing between mother and child and not everyone wants to see it! I don’t think it should be done in a place where people are eating, but maybe a quiet place away from view.
I believe breastfeeding is perfectly fine anywhere it’s the most natural thing in the world it’s such a shame some people make a fuss about women feeding in public.
As long as it isn’t stupidly inappropriate place don’t see any reason it shouldn’t be allowed
I have no problem with women breastfeeding in public. It is very natural.
I am for it. Breast feeding is totally natural and should definitely be encouraged, pretty much anywhere the mother wishes to feed (sensibly, obviously).
I don’t have a problem with it at all should be more acceptable in society and more places to be more friendly to mums and baby’s and to make allowances even if to reserve area’s for mums and babies and have sign’s to welcome them to do so other mums could sit and chat and feed babies in piece.
When I have a baby I plan to breastfeed and I say now I will do it whenever and wherever but when it comes to it, I would probably wimp out and do it in a private place.
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I whole heartedly agree with breast feeding -its natural and an amazing bonding tool with mother and baby.
I breastfed my first child and plan to do so with my second. Thankfully, I never experienced any negative reactions to breastfeeding.
I admire anyone who is confident enough to feed in public, I was always terrified that someone would have a go at me about it, which is quite sad really.
For as long as its done descreetly
I breastfed my daughter for 10 weeks but had to give up as my milk supply wasn’t sufficient. My son was bottle fed from the start. I completely support breastfeeding in public. Why is it fine for almost every magazine to feature women in various stages of undress and yet some frown at women using their breasts for their true purpose!
I have never yet seen a breastfeeding mum do so with less than the utmost discretion and respect for those around her. Some of the stories I read about idiot cafe and restaurant owners being rude to them make me really cross.
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I didn’t breastfeed in public, but I certainly don’t have any problems with others who do.
if its done relatively discreetly then i cant see the issue
ive breastfed all 3 of mine and fed in public but discreetly
I breastfed my daughter and it is the most amazing thing that I have ever done! To know that I was responsible for her growing and developing was amazing. I had a great group of baby friends and was quite happy to feed anywhere.
I think it’s good women are breast feeding in places, it’s a natural process
, I breast feed for 3 months with my first and a week with my second due to medical reasons but I wish I had more confidence when I was breast feeding to do it when I was out x
you should do what is right for your child at that moment
Having breastfed both my boy, now aged 16 and 10 years, I am have totally ‘for’ the debate of Breast Feeding in public. I breastfed everywhere: on the bus, in the cafe and wherever my little boys demanded a feed. Not once did I encounter people frowning or disapproving. I believe the reason is because I was discrete and didn’t make a show of what I was doing and therefore, people just carried on their daily duties.
i didn’t but i have no problem with it
This subject really annoys me, women have been breastfeeding chidren since the dawn of man. It is the most natural thing in the world for a mother to breastfeed a child, wherever and whenever the child needs it.
i didnt breastfeed, as i couldnt but im not against it in public but a dash of modicom doesnt hurt there is some great shawls now available to make it more private which must be more comfortable for the mum too
I breastfed my son until he was 22 months old and plan to do the same with my daughter who is due soon. However I still see it as a personal decision and nobody should be told to do it.
do what you feel comfortable with and what is best for your baby
I see no problem with it. Do these people object to seeing anyone else eating their dinner in public? I doubt it!
I dont think that breast feeding in public is wrong or offensive ,as it’s not as though you aren’t covered up
its a natural way of life but still a lot of people stuck in there ways about a lot of things including breastfeeding in public
I think it should be done in private rather than publicly, yes its natural and it doesn’t offend me personally. I could live either way so its not important but I just think its a bit unnecessary just to get your breasts out just any where at any time n show the world how you breastfeed in public places specialy with lots of people around. It would honestly make me feel slightly awkward and uncomfortable to be in that position… but then again I am assuming that I am probably younger than most of the opinions on here. I mean being a nudist is considered natural but we don’t all go round publicizing it do we? and on a more important note… There are some serious horrible perverts in the world. Does breastfeeding in public still appeal to most of you? I struggle to find reasons for breastfeeding in public but hey ho if that makes you happy… don’t let anyone else bother you about it I guess. Be happy Stay strong <3
It’s fine by me. Perfectly natural and best for baby. I endorse it thoroughly!
If a mother wishes to do it in public then that’s their choice. It doesn’t offend me but it does make me a little uncomfortable.
I’m confident doing it in public, however, I’m trying to be discreet and cover my baby with muslin or light scarf
I have no problem with breatfeeding in public. I used to breastfeed my son while sitting watching a ballet class that my two girls attended. He was quite noisy but no-one was bothered!
i think that breastfeeding is the most natural thing, it doesn’t mean that you have to flash everything
I’m all for breast feeding in public. People eat sandwiches or lunch in public, why should a baby having their food be any different?!
I didn’t breastfeed my son for health reasons but I don’t berate those who do!
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I think people should be able to what ever they feel comfortable with!
I didn’t breastfeed but I’m all for BF in public- what’s the problem? We’re allowed magazines with naked women on the cover in shops, but it’s frowned upon to use our breasts for what they are meant for, to feed our children? Absolutely ridiculous!
I don’t see the need to make a huge fuss over it - each individual should be able to decide what works best for them without fear of being judged.
I think it is fine if done discreetly .
I am not against it, but think it is best to be kept discreet, ie, not openly in a restaurant for example
I am a big supporter of breastfeeding and I think its a fantastic resource. I feed two children in public and first time around I remember feeling very uncomfortable as people starred at me including some of our close friends, however I didn’t let it stop me. I actually think its sad that such a natural thing makes so many people feel uncomfortable and yet on the other hand images of women scantly clad is readily accepted.
i am very much for breastfeeding i breastfed all my children and did it in public, i do not see a problem in breast feeding in public at all
People should be allowed the freedom to breastfeed in public, if that’s what they choose to do, Why not! If Baby is hungry, it needs feeding, regardless of where they are. A Baby waits for no-one!
wish i had the confidence to feed in public
We seem to have forgotten that this is what breasts are for…
I don’t see problem.
i am for breastfeeding in public. As long as it is done tastefully, i do not have a problem
Have nothing against it.
I don’t have children & never likely too but don’t think I would do it as I wouldn’t want everyone oggling my breasts.
I support breast feeding whole heartedly. I breast fed both of my girls and I am now supporting my friend who is breastfeeding for the first time. I find that it is the older generation who have issues with breast feeding and breast feeding in public
Breasts have became sexualised and, as someone else has mentioned, we seem to have forgotten their true purpose! I am fully supportive of breast feeding. I don’t have children myself but have no problem with others breast feeding and if they choose, or need to, breast feed in public, then they should. My friends have breast fed in front of me when their children were small and I was visiting them in their home and it didn’t bother me in the slightest. It was more important to me that the babies were fed and happy!
Got no feelings about it either way myself, but that’s cos I don’t have anything to do with aoyone that needs to do it. No objections to it being done in py presence though.
I think breastfeeding is public should be normal, it’s a natural thing to do and if a baby’s hungry, theyve gotta eat! For me personally, I covered up with a blanket when feeding in public, this was more for my consciousness as opposed to what anyone else would say, but once they get older, they don’t want blankets covering their face and want the world to see that they have boobie! Ha. My daughter is 23 months old and is breastfeeding twice a day, it gets her to sleep and soothes her when she’s upset which is more than enough reason for me to carry on! When she is ready she will wean herself off, but I will not rush her and I certainly won’t feel pressured by anyone else around me
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I have no problem with it & would do it if needed.
Due to health reasons I couldn’t breast feed either of my children but I certainly wouldn’t feel uncomfortable or be disgusted about it happening, our bodies are made for that reason x
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I breast fed both my children and only ever fed them at home or in the car. I did not have the confidence to feed them in public, but I congratulate anyone that does.
My baby boy is 16 months and I’m still breastfeeding him. I love it, he loves it so happy days!
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I couldn’t breastfeed either of my 2 boys, but I have no problem with people doing it
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I believe a woman can do whatever she feels like. I didn’t feed because I couldn’t but if I could I wouldn’t worry doing it in public (but discreetly)
Breast feeding is best for babies and convenient too, but what can be inconvenient is “some people’s” attitudes. It seems foolish that women are frowned upon for breast feeding in public when there are adverts on bill boards with naked or very nearly naked women advertising products. It’s perfectly possible to feed discreetly and to buy or make garments which allow for this such as http://www.pinterest.com/pin/501095896012864190/ or http://www.pinterest.com/pin/501095896012864174/ The possibilities are endless to sew all kinds of interesting and funky clothes to allow for this and be proud, hold your head up high. Nurturing your baby is something to be proud of, not something to feel ashamed of and the people who make you feel uncomfortable are the ones with the problem.
I recently felt sad when I read of a woman in a restaurant being told to feed her baby in the toilet! It’s unthinkable that certain people equate breast milk with bodily waste fluids! Certain people need educating! It’s everyone’s choice whether to breastfeed or not, but those who choose to should not be treated badly or discriminated against. Those who bottle feed are not sent away out of sight, and nor should breastfeeding mothers be. If you are a breastfeeding mother reading this, I urge you to find support from other mothers, get some funky tops, go out there, be discreet, and hold your head up high!
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have tried to breast feed my 3 kids but didnt get the hang of it.i plan to try again with my next baby though as it is more natural
I happily breast fed both my boys and as discreetly as I could I would happily feed whenever and wherever the occasion was needed. I mean honestly, if you don’t like it, don’t look! Simples!
I didn’t, but I don’t have a problem with women who do, as long as it’s done discreetly.
I breast feed my daughter & I agree that midwifes etc are constantly pushing it when your pregnant, I’d already decided I would so they needn’t of bothered but I wished they had talked more about what to expect and problems you may encounter and how to deal with them. After talking to Mummy friends who all tried but gave up within a week, I’ve found that they gave up because the baby wouldn’t latch on properly, I explained that it took about 4 weeks for my little girl to get the hang of it sometimes we’d be there for half an hour just trying to get in the correct position and then she’d come of straight away, It’s probably only because I’m so stubborn that we didn’t give up. on telling my friends this they all wish they had of persevered but just thought they wouldn’t be able to. I breast fed for 7 months in the end. As for in public, I would feed wherever I needed to and if people had a problem with it, it was their problem not mine. I found more then disapproving looks I’d get men giving me pervy looks which was concerning and I guess a big part of the problem that people are programed to see breasts as a purely sexually thing and therefore not a naturally and perfectly acceptable way to feed your child. I think if women expressed milk from their elbows then this ongoing debate of when/where you can feed your baby would never of started.
I will breast feed if I can. I think the pressure put on mums to breastfeed is too much sometimes and some mums just can’t do it physically or for environmental factors beyond their control. I think I would probably try to express milk for in public but if baby was hungry and I had nothing I would feed them.
As nature intended is always best.
If your child is hungry feed them. Its that simple. it doesn’t matter where you are.
I breastfed both children (16 months and 22 months). I can remember vividly the first time I fed in public. It was in a town I knew well, but not well enough as I circled for ages with a crying baby trying to find a place not full of teenagers (half term). So, new mums, if you’re ever in Guildford, try the House of Fraser cafe - it’s so high up in the shop, only a limited number of people bother…
It is daunting and I can see why mums might be put off. However, with a bit of practice it does get easier and you will find all sorts of weird and wonderful places to feed
Totally for it, and I cannot see why something so perfectly natural seems to offend some people
I think it’s disgusting that women are expected to breast feed in smelly toilets. You wouldn’t sit in there for lunch. I breast feed my twins but rarely when out because I found it difficult to be discreet I always felt slightly clumsy getting my book out and latching 2 babies and felt uncomfortable. Besides which there are very few places where you can sit with a baby on each breast. It was just easier for me to make sure I was home and had my special feeding cushion for support
no problem with it - its what they are for!
I am totally for women breatfeeding wherever and whenever they need to! Its the most natural thing in the world! I did not manage to breastfeed any of my 3, I bled quite badly from my nipples and it was quite distressing for both me and my children. I bottle fed them all and they have grown up without any adverse side affects. Its your choice ladies, no one elses.
Breastfeeding is completely natural and if a woman is prepared to breastfeed her child in public then society should accept that. It’s not like women wander around in public topless and shaking their breasts at everyone, they’re discreetly feeding their children!
I breast fed my son and don’t have a problem with it, its natural - most mums are discreet anyway
I’m all for it
I don’t have children but believe women should be able to breastfeed where and when they like as long as its done discretely
I breastfed my first and I’m still breastfeeding my second child I have no issue with breastfeeding in public whatsoever. I’ve never had any bad experiences my self but I do cover in a way that I don’t think people notice. That said I don’t think it’s a must to cover and I hate hate hate the way people sexualise breastfeeding or compare it to urinating in public. Not remotely the same.
I am currently breastfeeding my first child and feel that there is not enough help out there for first time moms. i was made to feel like a leper in the hospital by having to have the curtains pulled closed whilst i fed my daughter so i didnt offend anyone else and was left to struggle, despite asking for help. Its a good thing im so stubborn otherwise i would have given up very quickly if i wasnt so determined to do the best for my little girl
I am for it and see no problem with it at all.
i have no issue with mothers breast feeeding in public at all , however i myself didnt breast feed as t just didnt appeal to me
I am all for breastfeeding in public. If a baby is hungry it needs to be fed . Its a perfectly natural thing and no woman should be made to feel uncomfortable about it.
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Breastfeeding is the most natural thing in the world - simply a mother feeding & nourishing her child. Why people get upset when it’s done in public baffles me.
It’s totally natural and I don’t see what the fuss is about!
I think it should be accepted in public - toilets are no place to try and feed babies, and it can be stressful for new mum to try and find somewhere private at a moment’s notice!
I breastfed my daughter in public, if she was hungry i fed her wherever we were. If people didn’t like it i told them not to watch.
you should do what you feel is best for you
I think breastfeeding in public is completely fine (we can all be a bit discreet if you want!)
But I do think there is too much pressure on Mums who struggle with breastfeeding and for those that do combination feeding should be offered as an option instead of being made to feel that formula is the food of the devil!
I don’t see anything wrong with it. it’s natural!
I didn’t breastfeed either of my kids. However, I do think you should be free to feed your child in public wherever you are. If they’re hungry they need fed, no one would bother about a baby being bottle fed in public so I don’t see why breastfeeding should be an issue.
I agree as long as it discrete. A fed baby is a happier baby.
I breastfed both my babies for over a year - and was determined so didn’t care about public opinion
I tried to breastfeed all three of my children, the third child was tongue tied though so couldn’t latch on! I was never brave enough to breastfed in public, in the back of the car or in a quiet feeding area with a cover yes but never enough confidence to just feed where-ever.
I never tried breastfeeding at all, I know they say its best but all I can say is my daughter is one of the healthiest smart children ever so I don’t feel she has lacked in any way. I do think there is far too much pressure on mums now, its a personal choice and the midwives/nurses should respect that. I personally don’t think people should breastfeed in public, you can express milk for a bottle when out and about but there will always be people for and against it.
I don’t plan to breastfeed but I see nothing wrong with doing so in public. People seem to get outraged over the most ridiculous things these days.
im all for people feeding in public i dont see anything wrong with it
I fed both my children in public and never had a negative experience or comment.
im all for it BUT sometimes there is an inappropriate place to do it. Recently i was out with my kids aged 13 (boy) 6 (boy) and 5(girl) we were sat in the park watching the youngest playing talking to my 13 year old when this women walks in to the park sits on a bench near us in the middle of the park flops her boob out and starts feeding. She didn’t have any other child it made my 13 year old very uncomfortable as it was right in front of him . I agree a baby needs feeding but think about how it might feel for owther people sometimes
I have breastfed all of my children and thoroughly support breastfeeding in public but I also believe it should be one discreetly, I wouldn’t want my breasts on display to the world! If we are ever going to have breastfeeding to be the norm then it needs to be seen to be done by all kids of woman from all walks of life. I would love to see the day when it is normal for a little girl to imitate breastfeeding her dolly rather than feeding it from a toy bottle because that is all they’ve seen.
I had difficulties breastfeeding and had to give up after 10 days. Because of the emphasis placed on breastfeeding I felt guilty when I switched to bottle and I don’t think mums should be made to feel that way. Having said that, I fully support a mum’s right to breastfeed in public. When a baby needs feeding it needs feeding. It is a perfectly natural thing and people should just let mums get on with it.
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I am all for breastfeeding in public as if a baby is hungry, they are hungry, there are a vast array of breastfeeding tops and shrouds available to keep the breasts covered so don’t really understand anyone having an issue with a mother breastfeeding in restaurants, the park or anywhere else.
perfectly acceptable when done modestly
fine with me
I see no issue, but I do think it should be done discreetly, maybe with a breastfeeding scarf.
i am all for breast feeding public it is totally natural i was unable to breastfeed as i had no milk but i would encourage anyone to feed where they want
I founf breastfeeding hard and lonely as Im too shy to do it in public or even in front of my family.
Until I became a mother - I had no idea how negative some attitudes are. It is completely beyond belief that people view this as sexual. There is absolutely nothing sexual about a crying baby wanting food, nor when your breast are leaking milk everywhere. Most women who do breast feed are pretty discreet about it.
I have heard its mostly women that complain, I am guessing most of these are without children..
If I find any cafe or place asking women to leave- I would avoid it. Shame on them. Brilliant that many cafes are now starting to put signs up welcoming breast feeding.
Breast feeding in toilets is really unpleasant - no one should be put in this situation.
Other the other hand, all women’s experiences are different and they should not feel like a failure if they have been unsuccessful in breastfeeding. It can be challenging and stressful.
I just became a mom for the third time and breastfeeding on demand the same way i did with my first 2 babies… it is full of benefits for the baby, the mum and the pocket too lol… i just would like people to be more open about breastfeeding outdoors..
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There should be no problem with breast feeding in public. It is easy to be discrete and baby is hungry.
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I am for breastfeeding - been quite petite I never had a shawl, I fed my kids everywhere and most people didn’t notice. The only time I came across any negativity was in the Army Med centre where we were based at the time. The receptionist came over and asked me if I could feed my daughter in the baby changing area as I may be making the boys uncomfortable. I advised her if they were uncomfortable they could feel free to move away from me - funnily enough, they were absolutely fine about sitting next to me and one stated ‘I would rather sit next to you feeding her than sit next to you listening to a hungry child scream!’
I am for it - Discreet if possible
I tried with my 3 but it never seemed to be very good for me or baby, I was very sore and they were grumpy, and hungry. Final straw was with my 3rd and saw blood coming from his mouth which made me panic then I realised it was mine. I would never have done it in public but each to their own.
Im all for breast feeding in public, why not?! The only negative i ever got was actually from the hospital who after a week of me trying to BF offered me no support and actually accused me of starving my baby due to 10% weight loss
at 19 i just did as they said and switched to bottles 
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Don’t understand people who would’t be for it! I breastfed for a short while and didn’t have any negative experiences.
I was just having this debate with my family. When i had my son 15yrs ago before you could breastfeed in public i was reduced to having to feed in toilets when we were out and that is clearly unnaceptable. However, this new brand of “militant mummy” that whaps their boobs out at every opportunity is equally unnaceptable- just because you can doesn’t mean you should! Modesty for yourself and your child is important as is the comfort of people around you. Men in particular can find it very difficult to know where to look, my OH was just in a situation on a packed train where a mum had both boobs out as the baby was switching from one to the other and everyone in the carriage was uncomfortable not to mention no one could sit on the seats close to her as it was too awkard. Then you have the other issue of pervs looking at you while you feed - brazen and deliberatly provocative behaviour only encourages this and makes it even more difficult for ladies who have a more inhibited personality. Personal discretion and use of cloths/thin blankets are all that is needed to stop this being an issue once and for all xxx
I don’t have children yet but I am thoroughly pro breast feeding in public. It is not something to be ashamed of, but is something to celebrate. Interestingly, I’ve just returned from a long spell in Indonesia. The region is almost entirely Muslim but I would often see women breastfeeding in public and it was entirely accepted.
I believe in choice, no mum should be made to feel bad for breastfeeding in public and no mum should be told shes not good enough because she chose to bottle feed!
I bottle fed from day one. I didn’t want to go through the stress and my child is healthy and happy. Im happy for people to breastfeed in public. It’s perfectly natural
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I’m not against it, but i would feel more comfortable covered up personally
I think people should have the freedom of choice to do what they think is best for their children.
To be honest I think it is the choice of the mother. I don’t have anything against people who do it in public. I don’t really think about it.
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I did breastfeed but never in public - I wasn’t brave enough personally but there’s nothing wrong with it at all!!
I breastfed my dd exclusively for a good few months but with my ds I added in bottles from quite early on as he was such a greedy wee thing. It works both ways, as long as baby and mum are happy.
I have breastfed one of my 2 children . I am all hands up for breastfeeding in public but I think mothers should make it as discrete as possible- not for others but for themselves (noone likes stares)
I couldn’t breastfeed (i was on to much medication after giving birth) I think its up to the individual but i think a shall is a good idea as there are some perv’s (one of my friend’s breast fed and she had this perv watching her, then he asked if he could have some weirdo)
I breastfed both mine but never felt comfortable doing in public as scared of other people making a comment and staring
i have no problem with breastfeeding in public at all. i would have loved to have breastfed my children but struggled with all of them
You should absolutely be able to breastfeed in public - I just have an issue with women who are very aggressive about it.
At the end of the day it’s your own choice.
I am currently breastfeeding my 9th baby and I’ve fed all of them for varying lengths of time. I am totally comfortable with feeding in public, but only because I am very discreet and I don’t show anything at all. I put my baby under my top and pull a light cardigan round or use a baby blanket to cover any gaps. I have had people come up and talk to me and only just notice that I’m actually feeding right at the very last minute. Ironically although I’m totally comfortable feeding anywhere in public, I have had my mother suggest that I leave the room and don’t feed in front of older family members in case I offend them and I have complied because it’s family and I didn’t want to cause any upset! I enjoy feeding because I believe I am giving my children the best start I can, it’s very easy being always on tap and it’s lovely for cuddling and bonding.
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For it in public. Don’t see why it is a problem!
I dont have ap roblem with it but I do belive there is a time and a place. For instance, the article about doing it at the Swimming Pool itself is not hygienic in my personal opinion but if she was in the cafe or sat spectating then its okay.
Totally for it… and there should be more areas for mum’s to use when out and about
I breastfed both my boys up to they were 1.I found it difficult at first but kept trying and finally got the hang of it.I found it so much easier at the night feeds and my boys were really settled at night-no fussing about with bottles i just pulled them in to bed fed them and put them back in the moses basket.I also fed when i was out if they needed fed-you can buy so many good bras and tops that dont show anything!
I think it is a natural thing and something that most people would not be bothered by as long as it is done in a fairly subtle way.
I breastfed my three children until they were all 1yr to 2yrs old - I used a light weight breastfeeding scarf for discretion, mainly because I felt like it’s a personal thing and nobody else’s business - I never received any negative comment feeding in public, which I did regularly as and when the need arose.
Its natural so i don’t see the problem, i was only able to breastfeed for 4 weeks before bad reflux and allergies took over, i felt incredibly guilty for ages after for bottle feeding and was embarrassed to use a bottle in public!
Of course it’s a good thing to breastfeed in public. You are doing the most natural thing. It’s a shame that most people these days see women as just something sexual. I find it disgusting that people can say nasty things to a breastfeeding mother, yet I bet they have no issue with everywhere selling the Sun newspaper which has page 3. We have a very messed up society.
I think it’s fine, do prefer it to be discreetly done though.
Breast is best but not in public.
think this country is predominantly prudish, if the child needs feeding im sure folk would rather it be fed than crying and screaming a place down. would rather they stopped drunks on street corners in little groups with their beer tins than breast feeding, I know which to me feels more improper in public and threatening to people x
I am all for breastfeeding, it’s perfectly natural. I only wish I’d had more support when my daughter was born, I was desperate to breastfeed her but unfortunately she just wouldn’t take to it….
As a bloke I have no problem with it at all, perfectly natural. I do understand some womens hesitance though as there are a number of not so nice blokes who will just letch/stare as well as the “Offended for the sake of being offended” brigade.
I breastfed and i had a shawl thing to wear whilst in public, i was rather nervous of doing it though so would tend to do it indoors… I had to stop after 2 weeks sadly but my sister breast feeds in public she used to worry but says she doesnt vare any more x
I have done it myself in the past and always found a way to do it discreetly to prevent other peoples embarrassment.
I didn’t breastfeed but I think it’s fine to breastfeed in public or wherever you want it’s a natural thing to do!
I breastfed both my girls & had I needed to would have breastfed in public, I did tend to avoid feeding time if I was going to a restaurant though.
I agree with breast feeding in public but sadly i am too shy to do so myself x
I loved breastfeeding my little girl and exclusively breast fed for three months and then breast fed along with formula for 8/9 months. I think it is a natural process and no one should feel ashamed or embarrassed to do so.
i breastfed all of my children, they are now happy, healthy 30, 28, 26 and 22 year olds. my daughter breastfed my grandson who is 5, which i actively encouraged. not quite sure why people have a problem with breastfeeding, after all, people are happy to look at girls in skimpy clothing, glamour models and porn, even male models, so why not a woman breastfeeding?
I tried breastfeeding my first but kept having major problems getting him to latch, never attempted with my second.
I totally have no problem with anyone breastfeeding in public.
I am not against breastfeeding but I also dont think there is really any need to make a public display out of it. I’m not saying its unnatural but I think its a private thing between a mother and child so if its an important aspect of bonding it should be done in a private place. A woman would not normally take her breasts out in public so I dont see why there is a need to do it when she has a child either. I think discretion and modesty play a large part.
Think it isn’t a problem, as long as it is discreet as this shows consideration for others, as all of our actions in public should be really…
Breastfeeding is completely natural so why shouldn’t people be able to freely do it as and where is needed? If you feel uncomfortable around breastfeeding women then don’t look - simple.
maybe not in public…
I think it’s perfectly fine to breast feed in public, if it’s kept under a shawl or something similar!
I am currently breastfeeding. I think it is perfectly normal and basic thing to be able to do in public. I have to say prior to becoming pregnant i rarely ever noticed a breast feeding woman out and about, but they must have been there. I have only encountered one backhanded compliment from a group of elderly ladies who came over to thank me for making it nice for the baby under a breastfeeding apron. Obviously the baby doesnt care if he is under an apron, actually prefers it without as its not as hot. And they obviously were watching me to then come and speak to me. Odd!
I have absolutely no problem with it!
i will try to breastfeed
I think breastfeeding is a good thing to do. I don’t have a problem with it in public
i think its good to breast feed but you always get one who wants to make a big deal of it like the lady who breast fed in the swimming pool not a good place for feeding a a baby
To breast feeds to truly bond with your baby. liquid love. You will never be this close to your child ever again. I stopped when my children were 10 months old and wanted to drink out of a cup - and it broke my heart. To all new mums, yes, it’s sore at first but persevere. No bottles, no powders. Take a shawl and wherever you may be, hold your baby close and let your milk flow free.
I feed my baby in public as and when needed. See no problem in such a natural act
I don’t like to see breastfeeding in public but that’s only really when the women don’t have anything covering them at all - I don’t think that’s appropriate, and I have seen that quite a few times. I don’t have a problem with breastfeeding if it’s covered up, and I can always just look the other way. I would never make someone feel like they couldn’t feed their child though by saying anything to them or giving them looks!
no problem
I didn’t breast feed my children but that’s because I couldn’t latch them on properly. I would have loved nothing more than to give my children the best possible start in life. If its for you then go for it, if it’s not, you’re not a bad mother and its not the be all and end all. Whats good for one is not for another!!! As for breastfeeding in public I think its fabulous. You would eat your mcdonalds fries in the street, why can’t a baby have their meal in public? Breastfeeding mums who feed their babies in public…YOU ROCK!!!
absolutely FOR it. Never had a problem when I BF in public, either.
I’m yet to give birth to my first child, but in my opinion it is fine to breastfeed in public and I’m shocked at the experience of the first lady mentioned in this post being made to feel ashamed and make room for the intolerance of others in her daily life - awful!!
faye xx
I am for breast feeding in public, but I would have a towel or shawl covering me.
Breastfeeding is hard work but it is a lovely bond between mother and child. There is nothing wrong with breastfeeding in public and I wish it was more accepted - most mums are discreet and don’t make it into a big deal!
i loved breastfeeding my son. cant wait to breastfeed my new baby