Questionable parenting as controversial video game survey results are revealed

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Before holiday I took part in a survey by My Voucher Codes as part of their ongoing research into the effect of technology and social media on our lives. Specifically the survey addressed my children’s relationship with video games. Personally, I had little to add as my two are weeny and their gaming is limited to the (somewhat bland) apps they have on their Leap Pad. However, having now seen the full results of the survey as published by Digital Connect Mag, they are a little disturbing.

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The survey questioned parents to see what games they allow their children to play, if they do any research prior to purchasing them, if their children have access to games they have forbidden at friends houses, as well as how long their children spend playing computer games a week.

For me, the most telling question here is access to games outside of the home. Just how likely are your children to fess up and tell you they’re up until midnight battling strangers online at a slumber party? Furthermore, if you knew it was happening round Little Johnnies house, would you stop your child from going there? 23% said yes they’d keep their kids at home, but this is only an option if they knew in the first place.

So in truth, it’s very tricky to get an accurate picture of what games children are playing. With controversial games such as these below, it’s incredibly worrying to think about what our nation’s kids might be exposed to in bedrooms across the UK.

The video game survey further revealed that 50% of UK parents have been asked to buy age restricted games, with 30% admitting they eventually gave in to their child’s demands. This includes popular violent adult games such as Grand Theft Auto, Call of Duty and Battlefield. Much of this seems to be a result of parental naivety as 35% admit they won’t even play or research the games first to see if they are suitable.

Mark Pearson founder of My Voucher Codes states the results were “disturbing” and points to peer pressure among youngsters as a major cause. He rightly goes on to state that “age ratings are set for a reason” and I have to agree. We’re not talking about Space Raiders and Pac-Man here with basic graphics and limited gameplay, games nowadays use CGI and are as life-like as the blockbusters we rush to see at the cinema.

In today’s ADHD-afflicted world of smart phones, app-infested iPads and console-addicted teens, immature young minds are plunged headfirst into virtual hedonism. My take is that parents need to seriously question the effects of gaming of children; Are they mentally equipped to make a proper distinction between what is real and what isn’t? Are our children becoming increasingly desensitised to violence as a result? Is it impacting adversely on their physical and mental health? - The studies exist so it’s time to seriously bone up.


#TravellingWithKids Ultrasun Professional Sun Protection Review

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It’s the same old thing every year. The kids get coated in suncream and might as well be wearing burkas to protect their little bodies from the sun… yet poor old mummy gets burnt. It’s a sad mix of forgetfulness, bravado and laziness. I’m not one of those that coats her body in Johnson’s Baby Oil then acts surprised when it bubbles away before her eyes, I’m not even a sun worshipper!, but my pasty white skin seems to attract the sun’s rays like Angelina Jolie attracts men. Right now my cleavage is peeling and my back is burnt and itchy.

Yet the children have a pleasant colour on their cheeks and only the faintest of lines to indicate where tees and shorts ended. It’s testament to the absolutely brilliant sun protection we were sent to try by Ultrasun Professional Sun Protection.

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Yep, a few days before we left, we were sent bottles of SPF 30 & 50 to smother on the kids. Given there was plenty to go around for Craig & I, I only have myself to blame for returning to the UK looking like Elmo from The Muppet Show. Ultrasun is a pleasure to apply and worked so brilliantly on the kids, I’m now cursing myself for not having fake tanned and having left the sun loungers alone.

So who are Ultrasun, and what makes them so brilliant for families?

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Ultrasun is a Swiss brand and a bit of a revelation due to its photostable once-a-day application sun protection range. Yes, I said once-a-day. A generous layer of this in the morning will see you right through until sundown. It’s patented liposome tenchnology provides water resistant protection against both UVA (aging) and UVB (burning) rays. Better yet, it’s hypoallergenic and free from emulsifiers and perfume making it ideal for use on really sensitive skin and (you guessed it) babies.

The consistency is refreshing compared to high street brands. It’s thick and creamy, completely non-greasy and rubs in beautifully without leaving white marks on clothes. The kids are left with a beautiful sheen and smelling really pleasant. If you’ve ever tried a supermarket own brand, you know just how horrid sun protection can smell, and it can be a real feat to wash off your hands after applying. With Ultrasun, the kids were happy to have us cream them up, didn’t wriggle away under our grip and we didn’t need to wash our hands afterwards - Massive thumbs up from us.

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It’s also fully water-resistant and you can easily appreciate this in the pool. I was surprised that you can actually see the skin repel water so you know it’s still performing. For habits sake I still reapplied diligently after a swim, but the bottle states this will still do its thing after towel drying. I can’t quite get my head around how this is possible but I can’t fault it. The heat and sun were fierce in Lanzarote and the kids were out playing for most of the day - yet their skin is completely burn-free and sun-kissed.

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With one 150ml bottle of Family SPF 30 priced at £25 (the Extreme SPF 50 is £20 for 100mls, £40 for 400mls) some might balk at the price. But trust me, allowing your children to burn in the sun will result in sleepless nights, sickness and many tears. I’ve also popped this into Google and found some cheaper deals in Debenhams and allbeauty.com. Further still, one 150ml bottle will provide sun protection for one person up to two weeks making it’s price tag seem far more reasonable.

Housed in an airless pump dispenser to prevent contamination and deterioration, the bottle will also survive being tossed around in the pool and buried at the beach. This also means each product has a mammoth shelf-life of two years too (most will average just six months).

I was also sent a SPF 30 tinted moisturiser for the face and fell instantly in love with it. My face is the only area that genuinely coped in the Lanzarote sun and I have to credit Ultrasun for this. It’s heavy-duty yet beautifully lightweight formulation replaced my normal morning moisturiser and BB cream and glided effortlessly onto my skin. A quick sweep of bronzer over the top and I was ready for a day in the sun.

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With light reflecting particles, anti-aging enzyme Ectoin and Vitamin E it’s nourishing and soothing. It also boasts revitalising properties in the form of enzyme Superoxide Dismutase to neutralise skin damaging free radicals from sun exposure, and Boron Nitride to plump and firm. 50mls will cost £26 and it’s truly worth every penny. I can cover the sunburn on my boobs, but not on my face!

For more information, head to www.ultrasun.com/en or follow on Facebook and Twitter for more sun care advice and chat.


#TravellingWithKids Roomy, Stylish and Great Value: Fun and Funky Caboodle Bag Review

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With two kids we LOVE a roomy change bag. We’re not great at clearing them out so you can usually find the majority of the kids wardrobes stuffed in beside nappies, bum cream, wipes and enough bottles to keep an adult hydrated for a week. It’s almost like we’re envisaging an apocalypse every time we venture out the front door - Bear Grylls would be straddling somewhere between impressed and disdainful.

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Our brand new Fun and Funky bag from Caboodle Bags certainly ticks the box in terms of space. It’s a super sensible 42cm x 33.5cm with a depth of 16.5cm giving it a life beyond carrying the kids essentials. It would make an ideal hospital bag if you’re due to drop, and we took ours as hand luggage on the plane to Lanzarote. With a nice metrosexual design it was perfect for daddy to sling over his shoulder in the airport - not a flower or a cupcake montage in sight, and the coordinating lime green zips give it an extra layer of interest for the style-conscious.

Yet there’s so many practicalities a good change bag should have. Pockets galore are essential for keeping food, drinks, medicines and ‘bum bits’ separate. We’ve all been there when your storage cup of breast-milk has drenched your nappy supply, or even worse, the cap escapes off your Metanium and coats the children’s jackets in yellow gunk. Well the Caboodle Fun and Funky design has a whooping five internal pockets. Each is really generous with all-important wipe proof lining to curb any cross-contamination and put an end to mishaps, and house any stowaway toys!

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So that’s 5 pockets already before you consider the two outer pockets. If you haven’t discovered the advantages of side pockets yet, these will literally transform your outings. When Child 1 is running into newsagents and pinching Creme Eggs, and Child 2 is screaming from the pushchair, easy access to a bottle is essential for freeing up those hands and diffusing the situation. If you’re looking at a fancy change bag without these, don’t bother.

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Change bags generally come rammed with extras too. The Caboodle bag is no exception with a coordinating changing mat, grubby stuff bag (fabulous if you’re faced with wet or poo-saturated clothing) and insulated bottle bag. These will set you back a good £25 if you buy them separately making its £40 price tag seem even more attractive.

Like Cath Kidston’s bags, our Caboodle Bag is made from oil cloth. If there is one thing I would recommend above all else when selecting a change bag, it’s this. Having a wipe clean material is just sooo essential. I have no idea why so many mums choose cloth when you think what a change bag will go through. It will be set down on the floor of public toilets, it will be set down on muddy grass, bottles will leak from the inside - It’s common sense to pick something that’ll survive parenthood.

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Finally, like all good change bags, this one comes with a webbing handle for grabbing, and an adjustable shoulder strap for flinging over your pushchair… I know, I know we’re told not to hang things off buggy handles, but you’re going to do it anyway - Just be super aware you aren’t popping rocks in there or it’ll tip over your pushchair.

So do I love it? Yes. This is exactly what you want out of a change bag. Yes I have a super posh one for when I’m showing off, but for everyday, I can’t fault it. If you’re bucking the Pink Lining trend as you find it a little too twee (and expensive), this is the bag for you.

If you enjoyed this Fun and Funky Caboodle Bag Review, head to CaboodleBags.co.uk to buy your own, or follow on Twitter and Facebook for competitions, chat and more reviews.

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