My M&S Magical Dining Room

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Oh I wish!

My dining room is actually my living room as we have one big open space which serves as both. We have a huge oak dining room table and 6 high-backed chairs that are seriously under-utilised at the moment. Only three of the chairs, and a quarter of the dining table sees bums and food every evening. As the dining table is the only place where little hands can’t reach, the rest of the dining table has become a dumping ground for anything important or expensive that won’t otherwise survive the Dexter-treatment. As he has a mild case of OCD, this irritates Craig beyond belief and he’s forever on a one-man quest to re-home things.

In an ideal world, we’d replace our dining room table with something smaller and buy a lockable sideboard to make the room work better for us. With another baby on the way we could certainly use the space! I’d also feel so much better knowing we have somewhere safe to stow away our valuables.

So what better way to spend an afternoon than to delve into Marks and Spencer’s home and furniture section, and explore their dining room bits and bobs! Inspired by a competition by style-gurus Jen (Love Chic Living) and Jenny (The Treasure Hunter) in which they’ve challenged fellow bloggers to pop together their dream M&S Magical Dining Room, I had so much fun creating a romantic dreamy space that would coordinate with our living room.

1 Maxim Beer Glasses x4 @ £15 / 2 Nova Red Wine Glasses x4 @ £29.50 / 3 Autograph Bubble Base Ice Bucket @ £35 / 4 Marcel Wanders Etched Votive Set @ £20 / 5 Capiz Effect Coasters x4 @ £9.50 / 6 Mother of Pearl Coasters x4 @ £13 / 7 Sommelier Carafe Decanter 150cl @ £20 / 8 Conran Copper Wire Trim Glass Hurricane Candleholder @ £30 / 9 Metallic Filled Candle @ £15 / 10 Silver Dinner Candleholder @ £40 / 11 Dinner Candles x10 @ £4 / 12 Butterfly Tray @ £20 / 13 Colour Hit Carafe 0.5l @ £7.50 / 14 Pleated Runner @ £15 / 15 Enamel Jug @ £18 / 16 Stainless Steel Atlanta Cutlery Set (16 Piece) @ £40 / 17 Manhattan Box Dining Set (12 Piece) @ £79

Given we’d have somewhere child-proof to stow away glassware, I’d pick some posh beer and wine glasses for Craig and I when we’re entertaining - trust me this will seem like the height of luxury after drinking champagne out of plastic beakers for the last two years! I’d also buy this beautiful glass ice bucket and decanter as these will reflect candlelight far more effectively than a cheap bottle of plonk on the table!

Finally, I’d finally throw out our current square crockery as this barely fits in our dishwasher. I’d go for something incredibly feminine and simple such as the Manhattan range. As grey is the new beige, I’d set it all off perfectly with a silver pleated runner and add pops of colour using candle holders and this ‘colour hit’ carafe.

1 Greenwich Padded Dining Chairs x2 @ £383 / 2 Rosa Dining Table @ £679 / 3 Classic Bone Frame Mirror @ £199 / 4 Padstow 3-Door Sideboard @ £479

How ridiculously comfy do these Greenwich padded dining chairs look? I can definitely see myself spending more time at the dining table if it’s comfortable - It would transform my working life as I’d have somewhere far more practical than the arm of our sofa to bash at the laptop. The ornate and traditionally girlie Rosa dining table would therefore double up as a relaxing work desk to earn my millions.

I’d child-proof the shabby chic Padstow dresser and use it for glassware, crockery, tablets and laptops. I know these pieces aren’t necessarily supposed to appear side by side, and we might find the wood doesn’t quite match, but I love different colours and textures and am all about embracing imperfection (good job or I’d be disappointed every time I look in the mirror!).

Finally I’d find simple wall art with muted pink, grey/green and cream hues to pull it all together. Hopefully the effect will be really calming and relaxing.

So that’s it - a very simple, very grown-up, light and romantic dining room!

What do you think?


23 Weeks Pregnant…

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Somehow, I’m now 23 weeks pregnant! So here’s another update from me during what is proving to be a very difficult pregnancy.

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We moved house last week (not recommended when you’re sporting a bump the size of Pluto) - still I’m glad we did it now whilst I’m still able to waddle around. We’re mostly unpacked now but the baby’s room appears to have become a dumping ground for things to be put up in the loft *cross face*. This is bad timing as I’m slowly getting used to the fact I’ll be having a little girl and have been busy planning the decorations for her nursery. I can’t wait to get started so the sea of cardboard is getting on my nerves.

After contracting flu last week, I’m now feeling much better propped up with antibiotics and co-codamol. It’s always a difficult decision knowing whether to take medication during pregnancy but this was at the insistence of my doctor and I was so ill I wasn’t really in a position to argue! I’ve also discovered I’m suffering from Carpal Tunnel Syndrome (CTS) which means my whole body is stiff and sore every morning. This is circulatory problem (common in pregnancy) that means I struggle to flex my knees, ankles and wrists, and my shoulders and calves feel like they been put through a marathon (not much chance of that!). Apparently there are some really fetching braces and supports I can wear, but now I know I’m not arthritic, I’ve decided to try to brave it out with paracetamol instead. All the books say this will pass after the baby is born so I’m feeling much better about my granny-style descent down the stairs every morning.

We’ve also had two trips to A&E last week with Dexter who managed to get tonsillitis and was throwing up blood on Thursday night. The very next night, in some sort of suicidal bid to rid the taste of antibiotics from his mouth, he then decided to break into the cleaning cupboard and help himself to a scary concoction of products. Thankfully, it turns out the bottles he plumped for were non-toxic so we’re very lucky. Nevertheless the panic and fear that goes through your mind when you discover your child has mastered the child locks on the kitchen cupboards is still very fresh in my mind. He’s now banned from the kitchen and we have a shiny new stair gate to prevent anymore accidents. It’s definitely made me more anxious about how I’ll be able to cope with two babies.

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There’s also been lots of talk about names this week. It’s tricky finding something edgy enough to complement Dexter that’s still really traditional. We much prefer English names that haven’t been done-to-death, with lots of variations so she can make it her own (e.g. Catherine, Cathy, Kate, Katie - this is a rubbish example as I’m not keen on it at all, but you get the idea). It might sound weird but I’ve planned a trip to our local cemetery next week so we can check out all the headstones for inspiration. Turn-of-the-century names are my favourites so I’m guessing I’ll find some interesting ones there. In the meantime, I’m very open to suggestions if anyone has struggled with the same dilemma?

Until next time, Gems

 


Maximising Space in your Lounge When You Have Kids

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We have a very strange downstairs layout in this house. The dining room and lounge is ‘open plan’ (of sorts) with a through-lounge, dining, kitchen. It’s great for toddlers as there so much space to run about (and fall over) in, and fewer door knobs to impale themselves on! For the last year we’ve lived without a dining table and just created one huge ‘super lounge’ - one side was more formal with fresh flowers, oak flooring, an open fire and love seat sofa for Craig and I, the other was decidedly more child-friendly with a huge rug, TONS of toys, and two huge three-seater sofas. Nothing matched, there was no cohesion and the whole area looked really ‘studenty’. Unable to cope with it anymore, we’ve now invested in a massive oak dining table and chairs.

This really has made the world of difference. It’s been great being able to eat dinner with Dexter at a proper table as opposed to off our laps, it’s also a great place to work from. The room is still big enough to take a three-seater opposite the dining room table so you can sit comfortably and chat to whoever is preparing food in the kitchen.

This, of course, means we’ve now moved our entire lounge into one half of the ‘super lounge’. Although we’ve managed to make it look quite homely it’s a tight squeeze to accommodate all our furniture and we’re having to dream up new ways of maximising the space. The whole process has turned into a de-cluttering project and we’ve had to think very carefully about what we really need with one inquisitive tot, and another on the way. Here are my three best tips for maximising space, whilst still ensuring your lounge stays toddler-friendly.

MADE TO MEASURE FURNITURE

Forget measuring up and buying something that barely squeezes in. Buy a small sofa that can be custom-made to fit in tight spaces. It doesn’t have to cost a bomb either… Nabru have some perfect space-saving corner sofas including custom-built, modular and self assembly sofas to keep costs down and get something that fits perfectly into those hard to buy for spots.

Holl 2 Seat Chaise Sofa 1444 Maximising Space in your Lounge When You Have Kids

STORAGE

We’ve just chucked away a HUGE bookcase that was literally crammed with DVD’s, books and CD’s from Craig’s clubbing days. Dexter’s favourite pastime was to stand on the sofa arm, hold onto the shelves, and do his worst by pulling everything off the shelves. I think we’ve all had a minor slip on cases and discs over the last few months.

We’ve now done a cull to all old DVD’s and sold them via Music Magpie - we have a LOVEFiLM subscription anyway so can stream or rent movies we want to watch. I’ve also taken bin bags worth of books to the charity shop and kept a select few I’m likely to re-read under my bed in a shoebox. CD’s are now kept out of Dexter’s reach on floating bookshelves.

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Trunks and chests are also great ideas for stowing away shoes, handbags and toys to have clutter-free evening. Locks are easy to fit to stop curious toddlers catching their fingers. Sideboards and TV cabinets with locks are also a very good idea if your little one has a penchant for wires, plugs and buttons! If you’re cabinet doesn’t come with a lock, and you’re not handy with a drill, you can always use elastic bands and wind them around knobs to keep your tots at bay.

THE LITTLE THINGS

Does your child have an inbuilt homing device for your remote controls, mobile phones, hairbrush and other things you’d rather they didn’t? Consider buying a small lockable chest to sit on your coffee table to house them, or pop them in a pretty pouch and hang them on a miniature coat rack to keep them safe. It sure beats shoving them down the side of your sofa and having them disappear into the lining!

remote control storage Maximising Space in your Lounge When You Have Kids

Oh and given Dexter is currently bashing the screen of our LCD with his fists, I’m guessing we’ll soon be getting wall brackets for our TV!

For more child-proofing tips, my buddy Kerry from Oh So Amelia has some practical advice over on her blog. If you have any other tips, I’d love to hear them!

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