Teaching Toddlers How to Cross the Road Safely

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You’re child is never too young to learn about road safety. Nothing terrifies me more than the thought of Dexter flying into the road and being hit by a car. Here are some top tips for teaching your pre-schooler the green cross code basics.

Now Dexter is a fully fledged waddler, he’s constantly on his feet. Of course it’s completely impractical to let him walk to the shops with me - a five-minute trip for me would be a two hour marathon for him! But it won’t be long until he’s walking beside me and exposed to a whole new set of dangers.

Here’s my plan of attack to get Dexter road safe:

Preparing for the walk

It might seem overzealous, but there are a few things every mother should have on her at all times. Luckily these are things that frequently live at the bottom of your handbag anyway. The first is pen and paper. If your child was to have an accident, best to have a notebook available to write down license plates and other details which might be useful for the emergency services. In the event you decide to seek road accident advice from a solicitor, there may also be number of things you might want to recall later.

The second is your mobile phone. It goes without saying if you are involved in any traffic incidents you’ll want stay beside your child when you call 999. As most smartphones also have cameras, if you get the opportunity you might also want to photograph the scene.

Practice makes perfect - Get out of the car!

Not only is walking a great form of exercise for your child, it’ll also help them become responsible pedestrians. It’s maddening that some school age children haven’t mastered the basics because they’ve been ferried around in the car for so long. For short trips, allow a bit of extra of time, set off earlier, and get your child walking.

Maintain contact

Whether you’re using reins, or chose to simply hold hands, make sure you have hold of your little ones when you approach a road. If you are using reins, make sure you limit your childs range so they can’t make a run for it. Don’t trust your child to keep ahold of a pram or pushchair either, it’s always best to have physical contact with them so you can control the pace.

Stop, Look & Listen

This might sounds obvious, but getting your child to remember it could save their life. Tips for getting it to sink in include:

Make it a game: Get your child to identify different vehicles and the sounds they make. Maybe print out a mini checklist so they can cross off all the different passing traffic they see (cars, lorries, buses and bikes). Familiarising them with the different dangers on the road is half the battle.

Make up a song: I’ve been all YouTube all morning trying to find a catchy song that addresses all the key points. Unfortunately they’re all a little too long to sing with your child at the roadside. If you’re child learns well through song, make up one of your own. This will help your child remember the order of the green cross code.

Watch other people: Watch a few people crossing the road and let your child critique their technique. Prepare a checklist and get your child to tick off each of the stages needed for a successful crossing.

Let them press the button

Much like ringing the bell on a bus, children love the idea of controlling the world around them. Most pedestrian crossings will have low buttons now for disabled and younger people. Let them press the button then follow the progress of the lights together.

So what’s your plan of attack? Do you have any tips of your own?

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The Ultimate Summer Driving Playlist

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I’m forever sneakily turning up the volume in our hideously old Ford Focus. I don’t drive myself so I always have my hands free to cause a nuisance. Craig is ancient (42 - so far too old to embrace his inner boy racer) and is always turning it back down again. I don’t think it’s because it distracts him, I’m pretty sure it’s because he hates my music. I can sort of appreciate where he’s coming from - it’s the very definition of demasculinisation to be sat at traffic lights with your windows down, and One Direction blaring from tin-like speakers.

Okay, okay - boy bands aside, music in the car is essential. It could even give your tot the opportunity to work to pick up new skills. Don’t believe me? Watch perhaps the coolest Youtube clip ever below to see this 3-year-old putting Justin Bieber to shame.

All joking aside, research by THINK! suggests that almost 20% of accidents on major roads are sleep or tiredness related. Long journeys on motorways can lead to a lack of concentration and, as well as other preventative measures, listening to songs you love can be a great way to stay alert and focused on the road.

So Money Supermarket have set us the challenge to come up with the ultimate summer driving playlist to keep daddy from nodding off at the wheel. Dexter and I were only too happy to take part. Dexter is a champion babbler and head-nodder already, and I have a singing voice that used to make my brother scream in protest when we were kids.

So without further ado - I give you my summer playlist!

On the way there… wherever there might be!

U2 - Beautiful Day

It’s just iconic right? Forget about the fact he’s a peace sign waving pompous arse. Forget about the fact he’s incapable of giving an interview without ramming the African plight down out throats then fails to pay his own taxes to Ireland. In the words of Charlie Brooker “I agree with what he’s saying - I just wish HE wasn’t saying it. How can I open my wallet while my fists are curled with rage?” - Despite all this, NOTHING gets you more in the mood to wind down those windows.

Robin Thicke - Blurred Lines ft. T.I., Pharrell

I’ll probably be bored with this in a few weeks, but right now, I love it. It amuses me even more that Thicke is actually an aging hair flicking Rick Astley-type.

DJ Jazzy Jeff and the Fresh Prince - Summertime

Will Smith will never get old in my book. I defy anyone to hate this song - it IS summer.

Rod Stewart - Maggie May

I ‘still would’ Rod. You might be 100 yrs older than my own dad, but I ‘still would’.

Roger Sanchez - If I Had Another Chance

This song reminds me of my school days. There’s a great bit mid-song that just dares you to thump the dashboard in appreciation.

The Smiths - This Charming Man

See! I can do ‘cool’. LOVE this song! It’s also very appropriate if you’ve had a fight with your other half about not having anything to wear. Songs sound even better when you’re screaming them at someone.

On the way home…

Regina Specktor - Us

Underrated. ‘Contagious’. Brilliant.

The Lumineers - Hey Ho

Dexter loves this. It’s a great clap-along song & brings people together. After a messy night out this is guaranteed to calm you down and get you squeezing your man’s thigh (that’ll definitely keep him awake!).

Radical Face - Welcome Home

Best known as the song from the Nikon advert, it’s actually a very mellow and anthemic song. It’s impossible not to sing it in an accent either - go on, try it.

The XX - Angels

I don’t know anyone who doesn’t love this song. It’s ghostly, atmospheric and beautiful.

 

So what’s on your summer driving playlist? Tell me here or join in for yourself!

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