Do you have an elderly relative or relatives who live on their own? It’s something that pretty much all of us have to deal with at some point, and for most of the time it’s not really an issue. However, it can get to a point when they struggle to look after themselves and need some assistance. You then have some decisions to make about what to do next.

You can up the amount of time you spend round there helping out, or you can explore different types of care, either a care home or care at their own home. Many prefer to have care at home and this can improve family life for many reasons…

Takes pressure off you and other family members

It might seem like a bit of a selfish thing to say (or even think about) but having an elderly relative that needs a lot of assistance is a big responsibility for you and your other family members, and it can be difficult to juggle this, your work and your own family life. If you’re not careful then it can take its toll and you can burn yourself out. However, if a carer were to come in, even just a few times a week, it can really take the pressure off you and spread the responsibility.

Means they can stay at home

Many elderly people (for good reason) hold their home very dear to their heart and simply don’t want to leave it. Having a carer means they can stay at home, a place that no doubt holds many memories for them, and could well ensure they’re happier in later life, which of course leads to a happier family life for everyone.

Companionship

If you have an elderly loved one who lives on their own then companionship is a massive issue, particularly if you aren’t able to visit as often as you’d like. Loneliness is a big problem in the elderly, and having a carer come in can really help this. Carers aren’t just there to come in and do housework or make meals; they’re also there to be someone to talk to. For example, with care at home at extracareathome.org.uk, all the carers are trained professionals who come in and listen, help and give advice, which can all be absolutely invaluable. The NHS has more information on loneliness in the elderly if this is something of concern.

Self esteem

By being able to stay at home and still do some things for themselves, this can massively increase self esteem. Whilst there’s nothing wrong with going into a care home, some may find it reduces self esteem, at least to start with, but care at home means they keep more of their independence.

You still have some control

You may very well enjoy caring for your elderly relative and don’t feel you want to pass that care over just yet. By having care at home, you can work with the carer and then can still care for them when the carer isn’t there, which might be a good compromise for you.

It can be good for the kids

Visiting grandma or grandpa’s house is always a special thing for children and something they’ll hopefully remember forever, so by having care at home, this is still a possibility.