Caravan holiday parks: A Family Survival Guide

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We all love a holiday and, sometimes, a simple break from our busy and demanding lives can go a long way to building the strength and appreciation within a family unit.

Caravan holiday parks are a favourite family getaway for us Brits because it’s an energising adventure for children; they can be outside, in the fresh air, exploring and playing. Even better, happy children are much more inclined to have an early night which gives parents the perfect opportunity to relax and enjoy some peaceful adult time too.

The key to successful vacations at caravan holiday parks is preparation and organisation. Nothing could be more stressful than arriving at your destination and forgetting essentials like towels or the babies’ bottles, or realising upon arrival that you’re situated in an adult’s caravan holiday park with three children looking for entertainment.

To avoid all this unnecessary hassle and ensure a fabulous family holiday, creating memories and enjoying each other, follow this simple guide for a stress-free time in caravan holiday parks.

Research UK caravan sites with lots of fun activities to do to keep the children occupied. There are tons of caravan holiday parks, in the UK and beyond, making it easy to find a location that tailors to your needs. The beauty of a holiday park is that all your needs and wants are catered for within one place. Does your child like to swim? Make sure there is a swimming pool. Is your toddler an explorer? Find a site with parks and trees.

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Don’t pack unnecessary clunky items like a high chair, the last thing you want to do is clog up walkways in caravans. Take a plastic sheet or mat instead of a highchair and if it’s a warm time of year, put the sheet outside and eat meals on the grass. It will be a fun adventure for you and your children and they are bound to enjoy a break from the restrictiveness of a high chair for a while.

If it’s a colder time of year, place the sheet on the floor in the caravan and eat on the chairs provided, the sheet will prevent any accidents from causing lasting damage and you won’t need to worry about cleaning up afterwards!

If your child is just beginning to walk or crawl, remember to take your baby gate. The fall from the door of caravans has the potential to be dangerous to your newly exploring toddler - the last thing you want is a fall and a trip to A&E on a holiday. In fact, the first thing to do once you arrive is to child-proof your caravan. Make sure everything within reaching distance is screwed down and move/relocate anything that could fall or be pulled over. With these precautions, you can happily allow your little one to toddle or crawl around the caravan without worrying.

Pack thin towels - especially for caravans that are located near a beach or that have a swimming pool. Thick towels take far too long to dry out and as we all know children can be rather indecisive; they may choose to be in and out of the sea or pool and the last thing you want is them shivering in a soaking wet towel. Light and thin towels are perfect for drying out quickly, again and again.

Meal times can be stressful enough at home with young children. Holidays in caravans are an excuse to break all of the rules and give your children a break from dinner table policies. What better way to do this than a family picnic? If it’s warm weather, an outside picnic is a perfect way to appreciate the scenery around you. So self-catering families will want to pack plenty of appropriate picnic foods (foods that do not require cutlery are best like sandwiches, mini sausages, scotch eggs, apple slices, grapes and other finger foods). Keep everything in light, resealable containers to keep them fresh.

Most importantly, don’t forget to enjoy yourself! The holiday is a break for you just as much as it is for your children. Take some time to talk to your family, away from the rush and demands of usual day-to-day life; you will really appreciate some quality family time. Like anything in life, preparation is everything - it’s totally worth it to guarantee that memorable and fun family holiday you will all be talking about in years to come.


Why care homes shouldn’t be regarded as a last resort

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There aren’t many positive news stories about care homes. I’m not suggesting it’s not newsworthy to report when their standards fall short, or we shouldn’t name and shame workers who provide unacceptable care, but are all care homes really as dreary and depressing as the media would have us believe?

I’ve had occasion to visit a dozen care homes recently. Having sat down with my Nan and asked her how she would like to spend her later years, she was surprisingly upbeat about the prospect of selling her townhouse and moving to a residential care home. Having lost Granddad, she’s lonely in her home, and although my brother and I have looked into modifying our homes to accommodate her, she’s very insistent she wants to retain her independence. Personally I think my children are a little too young to respect her personal space and frailty, and my home is just too loud and chaotic to offer her the peaceful and restful environment she craves.

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Her criteria is modest. She only wants a large sunny room, with a peaceful view. She’s still very glamorous and takes her inspiration and energy from the world around her, so anywhere too clinical definitely wouldn’t suit. She’s also incredibly sociable and wants plenty of company, so a buzzy activity-packed environment is preferable to one more tranquil.

Although the limited experience I’ve had of these places had been all mismatched G Plan furniture, scruffy staff and battle-worn patients, I tried to stay optimistic when I first hit Yellow Pages. We have an ageing population in this country, and care homes are now big business. People like my Nan are prepared to pay sizeable sums to get the supported living they require, in attractive environments tailored to their tastes and needs. So contrary to popular opinion, care homes are not simply God’s waiting rooms - there’s real choice out there when it comes to assisted living - for all sorts of different budgets.

So what can you expect if your loved one decides to make the move?

Well for one, you get peace of mind that their needs are being met - whether that’s help with preparing food, feeding, using the bathroom or taking medication. My Nan is frail, and at 82 is showing signs of senility and dementia. Right now, the family are taking it in turns to visit and assist her in her own home - which means helping her with all of the above, and staying on top of her housework. We’re not resentful, the kids love being there, I love being there - she’s not a burden to us at all, but sadly I think she’s becoming a burden to herself. It scares me that she might forget to take her pills, or indeed take too many, or even that she might be sat uncomfortably in her chair having not made the toilet.

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Secondly, they’ll get lasting companionship. A good care worker isn’t simply there to pour drinks and help your loved one to stay clean. They’re a friendly face in the morning, afternoon and evening, and someone your mother / father / grandparent can trust with their secrets, ailments, fears and memories. Then there are other residents, all with their own personalities, and their own tragedies and stories. Knowing my Nan is lonely, this gives me real peace of mind.

So I’m determined to make this next chapter in my Nan’s life one filled with positivity and adventure. Hopefully she’ll go on to create lots of new friendships and memories, and we can relax a little more in her company and make every moment more worthwhile and special. She’s a very special lady my Nan, and I’ve never been more convinced that this is the right move for her, and us.

 

 


Making mealtimes with toddlers both fun AND stress-free?

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Watching a little person grow up is one of the most amazing things you can experience in life. But, for some people, the “terrible twos” can be a real nightmare. I know that I’m not alone in admitting that mealtimes can often a be a huge issue with toddlers but I’m told that it IS possible to make family meals with little ones fun AND stress free! Hurrah! Here are some some simple strategies that you can follow to achieve those goals:

Invite their friends to dinner

Ever noticed how toddlers act differently at the table when their friends are present? It’s no coincidence, toddlers are quite observant and will mimic the behaviour of those around them. Invite parents with toddlers that have good table manners as it’s highly likely they will influence your toddler too.

Don’t scold your kids for being messy

Some adults cringe at the thought of food getting splattered around everywhere. They might even tell off their offspring for doing so. But, at such a young age, it should get encouraged. Why? Because it helps them to develop their creativity. And it won’t limit what they feel they can do in later life.

Get your kids to help you cook

Yes, there are some tasks you should never get a toddler to do (such as using a knife). But, they can get involved in other ways. For example, you can have them mix up some ingredients in a bowl or helping to prepare fruit, e.g. picking grapes.

Have a set dining area

It doesn’t matter if you don’t have a dining room. It’s likely you can still designate somewhere as a dining area with a little thought and creativity, for example, did you know that you can get tables for studio apartments that expand out for dinner purposes? Check out the infographic below for some other interesting dining facts:


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